i live with my mom

Well If I could choose right now I would live with my mom and save some money LOL...but on another side I would feel a little doubt only because I believe a young man of 27 should be on his own and have a stable job... but then you have those who are in school who need extra assistance or those who live with their mother to give her assistance. When I mate my husband he was staying with his mom I did have a little doubt but he grew on me.. so what can I say :o)

I am not sure I have never experinced that. My brother is 29 and he still lives with my parents. He has dated several girls and they didn't seem to mind.

I think it depends on the situation. Are they living with their mom to help with each others finances? To help with medical conditions? convience? or to mooch? If your prospective gf/bf lives with their parents to jut mooch and be a big kid then no that's a total turn off. If you live with them to help pay the bills ect then no problems. it totally depends on the situation. My hubby moved in with me & my mom when we were dating. We all lived togeather for a few years until we bought our house and started our own family. We also took care of her and tried to monitor her medical needs as well as we paid our 2/3's of the rent and other bills wich made living cheaper for everyone.

hi!! i believe it depends on your country's culture. i know for a fact that in the US and in some countries, you are to live on your own once you reach the age of 18. and living with your folks at the age of 27 is a major turn off, specially if the reason why you are still living with her is because you cannot support yourself financially and still depends on her for some money. maybe because independence is really important to these people. but here in the country where i live in, the Philippines, the close relationship between parents and children is so dominant that living with the parents even if they are already married with kids is not a problem. in fact, elderly here want their children and their grandchildren to still live with them. we emjoy big families. we enjoy being with our loved ones at the end of the day. we have close family ties here. but living with the parents does not mean we depend on them financially. once we graduate from college, or much better even before we graduate, we must look for a job and manage our own finances. we are expected not to depend financially on our parents, even if we live with them.

Hey, I see nothing wrong with you living with your mom. I love my mom & if she was alive I might be with her now, LOL!!! I miss her so very much. You are very lucky to have your mother. A person that would think it is a turn off must be up to no good, LOL!!! I understand no one wants a mamas boy who lets their mom come first over everything, but do not ever forget your mom either. I have always kept my moms relationship & my mates relationship separated. I told my husband what I did with my mom had nothing to do with our relationship & vice verse. My husband was jealous of my mom & my mom was jealous of my husband too, LOL!!! But I always told them both each relationship is different & the love I have for each is different too. My mom is my blood & my husband is my soul mate.

Maybe someone feels it is not good to live with Mom at 27 or 30.But I don't think it is bad.Why could not we live with our Mom? Yes,27 or 30 is adult,and we have our own job,our own income,so,in this way,why can not we live with our Mom? We can take care of our Mom. I admire people who live with their Mom when they are not young. Hpappy life every day!

My girfriend lives with her grandmother. We bought a house together and we're getting married. I still live with my parents, because during the years i never earn while i was working enough to live on my own.

I guess, it depends in the situation. And the reason why she/he is still living with her/his parents. I am already 30 years old now and definitely living with my parents. But you know what? How i wish i can move out and live my own. But i have reason why i cant move out and leave my parents because, the two of them dont want me to leave. They want me to stay with them because i know they need me badly. My father is sick and my mother as well, im the one they can take care of them because my brothers and sisters have their own family and life. And im the only daughter they can depend since im separated and i have my son with me and it would be difficult with me if im going to move out and rent a house to live. So i better stay and live with them.

Hi se7, I am family oriented so it will not turn me off..I will appreciate it...We can't judge the person when they live with their parents or whatever, it is always wonderful to know that a particular person have a very great relationship with his or her parents!

Hi se7enthbird, I actually live with my mom and younger brothers, well, not so young anymore but my particular situation, and I'm not justifiyng it, I got separated a couple of years ago. And I don't depend of anybody doing things for me, like cooking, washing, etc., but since I left where I used to live at, I thought at first going to my mom's, I considered it a 'smart' move in order to avoid paying rent and some other expenses. We do help her with whatever it is needed tough. But eventually I'll leave to a place of my own because I liked being independent with my own space, do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted.

This isn't a turn off or on, it's just something that can become a problem if the parents are too annoying asking questions or not liking the girlfriend/boyfriend. I "live" with my mother in papers but in reallity I live with my girlfriend because I'm tiref of my mother and she doesn't like my girlfriend.

i dont think its a big turn off for me, it depends upon the situation why a son/daughter at his/her right age is still living with his parents, maybe because for some reasons like if the parents are ill, he/she's the one who will take care of his parents. what is the big turn off for this, dont you think if this is the reason its a big turn on for us and a good points for this person that showing how much he/she really love and care for his/her parents. but what i dont like is mixing the person with a different personalities or perspectives in life, mother in law and daughter in law should not be in the same house, you have your own life you cannot avoid criticism with each other because they are different ,living in a different environment.

Hi ,I don't think is a turn on or turn off ,for me is just state the situation.and give the one who date you a chance to choice.wish I was not miss understand.

Sometimes it hard to live with your in laws. I think I depends if the relationship of the in laws to their daughter or son in law is good or bad. When their relationship is harmonious and they get along well it is ok to live with your in laws. For me it is better if you live in the different house so you have privacy and you can do anything that no one make complain.

Many people choose to live with parent for easier care of their aging parent, not because of he or she is still a baby. If my date doesn't like the fact i live with my mother, then she should go find another man, it is no big deal to me. For me, i am not interested to spend the rest of my life with an unreasonable partner or who has no respect for my mother and is not smart enough to see thing from various angles. It will be a real pain if my wife think marry to me means that i have to hate my own parent and end all my relationship with them, spend all my seconds with her till the day i die. LOL!!!!

It would depend on what they said they were doing with their life. I don't think that anyone wants to be alone and some people are more comfortable at home until they are ready to leave. If they aren't doing anything to better themselves it may be a turnoff though. Why doesn't your mom like your wife? She sounds very talented and devoted to you and your son.

I'm already 27 years and I still live with my mom and aunt. My dad's already not around since birth and my mom works overseas and comes home annually for two months, so I only have my aunt around. Although I wanted to move out and experience living on my own, I just couldn't do it. The reason? It's just simple: she still needs me and it's just only the two of us at home. Also, I have some relatives who is already in 30's that still lives with their parents.

Hello se7enthbird It is not rare a man who is not married living with his mum in my country, so I don't think it does matter with me that if he is living with his mum.

It's not a turn off for me.I myself was married to a guy who was and is living with his mom.Unfortunately,the situation is the trigger for our separation.But if you really love a guy or girl it won't matter as long as you understand and respect each other.

I'm living with my mom too. My daddy passed away almost 9 years ago. Since then my mom become a leader in my family. Maybe some of my situations are same with you, but the most different is i'm a woman and you are a man. I think your mom loves you so much and it's hard for her if she must share her sweet heart with other girl in this case is your wife. And it's become harder especially if you are the only boy she has or even the only child she has. However, no matter what's your mom feelings about your wife, she like or dislike her, the fact is your mom is your mom forever. If you decided to live separately from your mom, i can understand it's for they all own good. 'They' refers to both your mom and your wife. Maybe to prevent quarreling between them. But please don't forget your responsibility as her son.