who is your lover? computer or your partner?

I spent much time with computer to do lot of things instead of spent time with my girl.. but for me, my girl is the one that i love instead of computer. because she can take care of me when i'm sick, accompany me when i've stuck with jobs, refresh my day, and give me inspiration to do jobs with my computer again.. :D

Definitely my partner... i wouldn't trade him with anything else in this world.. you know, your boyfriend should be your first/top priority.. it's normal for him to feel that way cause it seems that you are hooked on the net and you seem like forgetting your partner anymore.. you can still visit your favorite sites online but be sure to spend more of your time with your partner.. make him feel that he's important, loved and cared about..

I don't have a boyfriend, unless you count a cat, so I guess its the computer

currently for me computer is my lover.When i get upset.I play game in there.Cheer up myself. When i need money i earn from there. When i need suggestion for studies i get it from there. When i need to talk someone i chat on there. So all over computer is my lover.

I think I love computer better, even if I am single now. I can do everything via my computer, I love it very much.

Pay more attention to him. As for me, I will complain that my boyfriend spent more time in playing computer game. He likes computer game better than ME. He will miss to meet me at the station but will not forget his tasks in the computer game.

I can only hope that he was joking. I would start by reflecting how much time you spend on your computer and how much time you spend on him. What's the balance? One of my ex-boyfriends used to be online for hours and hours aswell and it made me believe he was more fond of being online than spending 'offline' time with me. Sometimes people just don't realize what they are doing and that it might hurt you and if you talk about it then they might change it without a fuzz.

My friends husband is very much like that..I don't have a partner so it doesn't affect me, yet my friends husband has his own hobbies he does so neither has he have any right to tell her that she is on the computer too much..yet that is men for you...littleowl

my wife, that is my partner and my life. the computer never gets in the way when she is around or if she needs me. i have more time to share with her than to share with my pc. if your bf is telling the truth then there is no reason for you to cry. you just need to change you attitude from focusing more on him than at your pc. if he told you that then it might be true. try to check what time you started at the pc and what time you end. then see how many hours you spend at the pc and how many hours you spend with him. you dont need to get angry you just need to realize if it is true or not.

My husband is my lover and only him. When he is aleep and gone, that is when I will use the computer to be here at myLot in my spare time. I will also spend time with him alone. I don't want him to think that I love the computer more than I love him. Never that!

My lover is not my computer, its my wife.

My computer is next to my girlfriend and family. I never get tired of using my computer desktop and I think I will get easily sick because I am over used to it. My task and games can be mostly found in my desktop computer. It is really useful that is why it exists. But I will never forget the persons or the people I love the most but after them? I am a computer freak. I love using this machine.

My husband lives his life by his computer. He even watches tv on his computer. He spends more time with his computer instead of me. So what I do, I do the same thing as him. I spend time with my computer. My computer is my best friend.

Both of them, i love computer and i love my partner too. i share equal time with them. i spend time with computer whenever he's not around. i think this is better so that both of them are equal...

When my husband is home I don't get on the computer. He wouldn't mind but I like spending my time with him instead of in front of a computer. When he is at work is when I am on the computer. If he is in bed I also get on the computer. But if he is up and in the house he is very important to me so I don't get on the computer.