what should i do
By lsjack
@lsjack (44)
China
April 17, 2009 5:03am CST
i met a girl who is my classmate,i like her so much ,i like talking with her,and like her smile, whenever i stay with her ,i always become excited. but she said we won't be lovers, because, her home is far from me .she will back her home after graduation, what should i do, if go wiyh her , wo take care of my parents. so please help me ?
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8 responses
@srganesh (6340)
• India
17 Apr 09
Well,we have to accept such situations.She can't be with you and you can't go with her.Just remain as good friends or you can even dream her as your lover.You can't go further in this relationship.It will be really hard to accept in the first but time will make you up.Beautiful and nice girls are all there out in the world and you will soon get one.Until then concentrate on your studies and career.Cheers!
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@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
19 Apr 09
I think you are in attraction with that girl. First try to control your emotion for this girl. Then think what happen if she not comes in your life. Act as leader and you can easily come out of this situation
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
24 Apr 09
what i think nothing is a excuse if she really loves you.did she really love you? not just you love her much but she has no love feeling to you.you are good son and i am sure you love your parents.what i suggest try to know more and clear what she thought then you make your choise.good luck
@tonyNANA (1)
• China
24 Apr 09
Hi buddy, take easy and let her go. If she loves you she will stay with you, but she said she will go home. You will meet a better girl who could take care of your parents with you. Furthermore a man should think about career before getting marry. Just my poor opinion.
@lingzi (567)
• China
19 Apr 09
tell the girl,distance is not a terrible problem. many young people live far like me, but we can invite parents to live together.it's ok.
