Will you be using your husband surname?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
April 17, 2009 5:21am CST
Well I am just curious, cause my sister in law to be got used to used her maiden name. Her reason is she got known by using her maiden name and did achieved her goals by herself before she got married. Would you use you husbands surname when you get married? Have a nice day to all of you!
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
17 Apr 09
In the Canadian province where I live, I can't take my fiance's surname. I can either keep my maiden name, or hyphenate my name, keep my maiden name and take his as well. But the thing is my surname is already hyphenated. My parents chose to give my sister and me both of their surnames. So, it would get complicated, if I chose to take his surname and such. If my surname wasn't already hyphenated, then I might consider hyphenating it, and taking on my fiance's surname as well.
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• Craig, Alaska
18 Apr 09
Is this law only in your providence area or all Canada? thats a bummer for you, I like to have my husbands surname when ever I am married that is. currently I am divorced so I am back with my maiden name.
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
3 May 09
I don't know, if it's just in the province I live in, but I don't think it is, because a friend of mine, who lives in another province, faced the same problem, when she married her husband, last summer. However, she did chose to hyphenate her name. But I think that it depends on the person. Some people prefer to keep their maiden name as it is, like my mom, and others prefer to hyphenate it, like my friend, when they can't take their husbands' surname.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
yes, i believe i would be using his surname, it does not matter anyhow as i think i will be retiring from my work as well after a couple of years after getting married
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Hi chiyosan, I think women should use to there husbands surname. I hope my wife to be will use my surname or else I'll really feel bad. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@daliaj (5674)
• India
17 Apr 09
I am newly married. I wanted to keep my name as it is because I am well known in that name, but my husband wants me to use his surname. So, I am in a confusion. He is even ready than I can use a mix of my surname and his surname together, but I don't agree with that. I would like like to have my name is as it is or if it doesn't work with his surname.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Hi daliaj, Same reason with my sister in law, for her she got known by her maiden name. At first I was asking my fiancee why like that, but by now I do understand why. She's very popular and got know by her maiden name, so people will not be having a hard time anymore. Have a nice day to you!
@achinthya (1216)
• India
17 Apr 09
well I have not change my maiden name its still same as it is but yes my kids will be taking my husbands name as a custom of our Indian tradition..
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Thanks for the information. Cause usually once your married the women should carry the husband surname. Anyway hve a nice day to you!
@mansanas (15)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
I am not against women who will use their maiden name during marriage. But for me, I want to use my hubby's surname when I'll be married..or I can also used my family name-his lastname..Lots of married women settle for this nowadays..
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
Hi mansanas, well for me I like her to use my surname once were married. Well if she will still use her surname-and my last name that is kind a long for her. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
17 Apr 09
No, I don't change my surname after I got married. I don't like the concept behind the change of the surname, I think the consideration is different from our nationality. I don't think it is bad to use one's husband surname in other country, but I don't fancy it in my country.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Well there are women before they got married they were successful with their career so when they got married they still used their maiden name cause people got used to it. My sister in law to be even she is married she still use her maiden name. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
If ever I get married, I will use my future husband's surname. My sister-in-law is separated from my brother for 5 years now and she was using her maiden name ever since. Using the maiden name doesn't really affect someone's achievement. Its the person itself who's making efforts to achieve her dreams and not her maiden name.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Hi sophie_dfuss, it took me time understanding why her sister is using her maiden name. Maybe your right there! She wanted her own identity maybe! But I still hope my fiancee will use my surname. Have a nice day to you!
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
18 Apr 09
everytime I get married I always take my husbands surname. I do this because it reminds me of my new life. I've been married and divorced twice so I have 3 surnames. My last marriage my I.D. had my maiden name and my marriage name on it. I thought I liked the idea at first but now I know that when I remarry someday I won't do that again. I'll just use my new husbands surname on the I.D. card.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
For me I will like my wife to be using my surname not her maiden name. But it took me time to understand why her sister is using her maiden name. Have a nice day to you!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
Yes why not? I wouldn't think otherwise of using his surname unless it bring a lot of ridicule to the family.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Hi laylee, anyway I just got curious, cause my sister in law to be is not using her husband surname. I hope when I get married to her sister she will be using my surname. Anyway have a nice day to you1
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
17 Apr 09
Hi, n30wing! Yes, since I have been married for 7 years I have carried my husband's surname. I have never used an hyphen for my maiden name and marriage name. I never thought to do so.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Hi cream97, that is nice hearing your using your husband surname. I hope my wife to be will be using my surname hahaha! Anyway have a nice day to you!
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
20 Apr 09
Hello n30wing! I would love to use my husband's surname. I just like the feeling of putting his name to my name because it would really make me feel that we're really are stuck to each other..hehehe..
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Hi my friend aisaellis, you know what I really like your response. That was a straight answer. I hope and she will use my surname. Have a nice day to you!
• United States
23 Apr 09
all I can say that if you're gf is crazy to you, I am pretty sure she will use your username..hehehe by the way, thanks for the best response..
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
Of course I will used it. Our law says that when a woman got married, she should take her husband's name, there are some cases that women included their maiden names in it and that is permitted by law, examples: Mirriam Defensor-Santiago, Leticia Ramos-Shahani. I will used my husband's name if ever I got married and won't include my maiden name because that's too long for me to write anymore. I had been using my surname for the past 35 years so it is quite boring.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
I see, same with my fiancee she has a long name! Anyway have a nice day to you!