Which would you prefer- A life of comfort and safety, or daring and danger?

I think i had experience almost three of your categories. one, is daring because i had different relationship on all sides most specially those who are married. and probably some friends that i had back in college but i was never caught by their girlfriends and wives. safety, because my hubby(bestfriend) has a way of backing me up to prevent me from getting busted. a good life because in the end i get to choose my bestfriend.