would you consider having a relationship.....

Hi chesaid. I had a reationship once with a fippipa. I met her on-line a few years ago and went to the Phillippines to vist her a coulpe of times. I thougth things would work out but it did not, she marryed a Fillipino from her province. we exhanced e-mails, postal mails, and I maded phone calls to her over a two year peroid. I am not sure why things did not work out but I do think now the curtural differntces were a part of it. There are some things I may not underdsand about the curtule of he Phills. I am still learing myslef. I do have friends there and email them requalry. I have seen some of them marry men of other nationlitys and things work out great. You must look into your bf culture and see how women are reguared there and make some good dections and decied for yourself what is best, we are all products of our coultures.

In my opinion there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a relationship with someone of a different nationality, why should there be, if you are both in love and both feel the same way about each other then nationality shouldn't be a problem. I have dated some from Brazil and I have dated many other nationalities in my past and it has never been a problem for me or my partner, sometimes it's more interesting and fun dating someone with different views, ideals, culture etc, otherwise relationships can get boring! I have actually had more success in dating different nationalities than I have of my own nationality!

This idea of having relationship varies from person to person, as far as I am concerned till date I have never found anyone from other country impressive or felt like being friends either, so difficult for me to have such relationship. Any way best of luck for you.

I got married several months ago,so there is no more need for me to consider such a probleme as you have just encountered. However there are still some personal opinions about it that i can share with you .Nationality is never the barrier of marriage,there are only problems such as different interests,life tyles and philosophy etc,which usually will be found even in the same nationality.So you need not to worry about your different nationalities at all.that is really not the point of your relationship.

No it isn't a problem to be dating someone from a different nationality. I once dated an american. It was good till the time it was. Anyways but distance makes a difference, same nationality or different. And even the fact that is it an online thing meaning that have you;ll ever seen met each other in real life also makes a very huge difference. And last but not the least...the biggest issue is trust...how much do u trust the other person??? How strong is ur bond??? Having a long distance relationship, wid neone, is always not so easy and the success of it strictly depends on ur bond of love. Long distance means there r many blocks in the way. P.S- Well if religion and culture havent come up as yet these issues and many others will surely come up as ur relation goes on tothe next level. And solution depends on many factors as well...how close are you'll both to ur religion, culture etc etc etc...

Actually, I have never dated anyone outside of my race/ nationality. For me it is not something I think about or contemplate on doing. I've met alot of ppl from other nationalities, but have never been interested in the men on a intimate level nor relationship outside of just friends, co-workers, or classmates. But, am a believer of to each their own...

To me, i don't see color or race,Most of my bfs were White people,a few chinese, But people called me White dudes lover, I wonder what is wrong with them p.s. I am from Hong Kong

If I truly loved someone of a different nationally I would do all I could to make it work and go smoothly. He would have to speak my language of course. He could learn it so it would be easier to communicate.

If things are going good and we are compatable then yea I would date someone of another nationality. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I think if you truly care about someone then nothing would stand in your way of being together.

Yes I would. Actually I had and am in that relationship. It's because I don't categorize anyone. I mean yes they are from a different country or city or state but I look at each and everyone uniquely. I treat them as a person, not a person tagged with their nationality. You just have to respect that individual and give understanding and I think this is never scarce if you love that person. I had an ex and we never fought or had an argument with religion or culture. We had arguments but the normal ones that couples have. Hope this helped you... Happy my lotting!

yeah. why not. when it comes to love. you dont have to choose or limit yourselve. as long as you love that person, go for it. maybe he/she is your life. that's why im not believe in one of the culture of islam when it comes to a girl, guy allowed them to fall in love with other religion but when there girls fall in love to other religion, they believe its bad, so do you think love is a bad idea?