My girlfriend's ex-boyfriend keeps annoying her and it drives me crazy...
By yuguoli
@yuguoli (83)
China
April 18, 2009 9:30pm CST
Happened yesterday that my girlfriend went to a water bar with her friend texting me that she felt so bad since she didn't get well enough in the examination. But things are not so easy. After she went back home, we chatted online. She told me her ex-boyfriend went to her classroom and wanted to be her boyfriend again which embarrassed her a lot there. And she said she left my cell phone number to that guy accidentally and she wanted me not to talk to that guy or even refuse any call from that guy. She said she's afraid of being losing me and told me that, if that guy knows we're break up then he would give up. If things cannot be gained by him, then others wouldn't get them. That's what my girlfriend told me. What a infant girlfriend. Things are like that simple? Definitely no. And she believed. I know my girlfriend is a little bit persistent. How could you myLotters help me out? What should I do to make her feel alright and how can I find the solution to make the guy never annoying my girlfriend any more.
ps. I agreed to refuse any call from that guy and maybe he would talk nonsense to me which can be a damage factor in between our love. Plese help me out.
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2 responses
@cassandralynn (1084)
• United States
27 Apr 09
Hi yuguoli,
Did your girlfriend give her ex-boyfriend your cell phone number because she did not want her ex-boyfriend to bother calling her phone? I think your girlfriend is right about you not speaking to her ex-boyfriend because he will just tell you lie's about her and him. She need's to tell him to leave her alone.If he keeps on stalking her maybe she should get a restraining order against him . I think the reason why he wants her back is because she's with you and he like's the challenge, some people like to try to get what they can't have. Hopefully he's not the crazy type to cause her any harm.. Good Luck! 
@yuguoli (83)
• China
30 Apr 09
Hi cassandralynn, thanks for your comment and most important thing is for your right analysis for me. I guess you're positively right there. Totally agree with you that someone just wants to get what he cannot have. I just hope he'll not destroy the relationship between us. So I guess we really need trust. And I wish that he will stop. Just stop. Thanks again. Happy myLotting, my pal.
@carpenter5 (6782)
• United States
23 Apr 09
We are in the total opposite corners. My daughter's boyfriend has an ex-girlfriend that is stalking them. She calls him at all hours of the days and night and now she is calling and e-mail my daughter trying to get her to break up with him telling her that they are still sleeping together and he got another girl pregnant.
The problem is that she is a liar and she has proved it. She said that they were together all day long when he was out of town with us watching my daughter cheer at her last college game.
@yuguoli (83)
• China
23 Apr 09
Thanks for your response. You're the FIRST to give me answer in myLot.com and I really appreciate your post here. lol. As for the conditions of your daughter, that girl keeps calling and stalking which is quite annoying, and I totally understand that. As I said, my girlfriend told me not to pick any phone of him or not to talk with him because she knew that the guy would do whatever he thought to make us break up. Maybe by telling me they just sleeping or something like that just as you said. And obviously, I don't buy his story and I would never talk to such guy. Shame on him. And also, shame on HER (you mentioned above). This is life, we get to face it. Hope your daughter and her boyfriend go through it. Thanks again.
