who wants you to be alone if you have a problem?why?

I am the type of person that tends to want to solve problems on my own, but this is not due to personal choice. The reason I prefer solving most of my problems alone is because I usually can not adequately describe the problem and then when people try to help me with suggestions I get nauseous because the solutions have nothing to do with the problem. Although people are trying to be helpful, my problems are far too complicated and most of them I can not be helped with. I have chronic fatigue for example, and if I ask for help I will get more tired listening to silly suggestions. I have been seeking help with this problem for over twenty years and the only help is to be alone and research "how to treat chronic fatigue" or to go take a nap.

Hmmm, well like you i'll need some alone time to think of the possible solutions but i'll nned my close friends' opinions anf families' too in order to think throughly through it. I guess noone likes to be disturbed when they're concentrating on comeing up with a plan...hee..=]

We are the same. I always alone when I have problems. I try to find solution by contemplating alone. It is where I became strong and a better person in life.