Your friends are fighting, what will you do?
By khatyeah
@khatyeah (70)
Philippines
April 19, 2009 5:34am CST
What if you have a group of friends, and then suddenly, 2 of them had a misunderstanding, then your other friends started taking sides. And one of your friends is going to celebrate her debut the next week. What will you do? Will you take sides or talk to each one of them?
9 responses
@Novelist_117 (566)
• Qatar
19 Apr 09
Hi Khayeah ^_^
I wouldn't take aside ofcourse coz one of them would hate me
so, thats mean it's became worst ( I would simply try to solve the problem in
away that no one get hurt feelings or somthing bad !!
by talking to each of them :)like you shouldn't do that ,
why you did that and so on
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@khatyeah (70)
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
i know, anyways, i did not take any sides and i started to lose my hopes that they will talk to each other again. since it happened last year. do you think i should blame their friends who are boys? because they were the reasons why they started fighting. :(
@Novelist_117 (566)
• Qatar
8 May 09
dont' blame any body !! make it simple and let it go
coz every thing will become fine and easy
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
19 Apr 09
When my friends are fighting and I am the bridge to connect them again, if I can I'll do my best to solve the issues. I'll try my best not to let any party feel that I support or take side of another. I hope to clear their misjudged and be friends again.
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@khatyeah (70)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
yes. i did the same thing. but what will you do if one side tells bad things about the other side and the other side does the same? i mean you have to keep it to yourslef but i'm pretty sure that you'll find it very hard to accept that they are backstabbing each other.
@ahmedafaque (161)
• India
20 Apr 09
ya i too will do the same what others will do i will try to solve the misunderstanding between them and will try to clear out things and will remind them the good time they spent with each other .If it also doesnt work then i will close them in one room and will give them time to fight and solve their problem and when they will sovle their differences then only i will open the room heheheh.hope this will atleast solve their problem
have a nice day
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@kapil_poundarik (960)
• India
19 Apr 09
well i will not take any side , i will talk to both of them . that is the best thing , so that no one gets angry on me and i have good relations with every one . also there should not be any sides taken in friendships, we should be neutral, this is the best way we can be good friends for a long time. what about u, did u also took sides.
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@seandionne (2)
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
you need to be equal talk to them one by one so that you'll be able to know both side's then try to explain each side to them!make them remember how your friendship start,i'am sure they dont want to end their friedship that way.you can be the way for them to reconcile again.
@Dustmite (88)
• India
19 Apr 09
i will take the neutral side and try to stop the fight before something bad happens....being on a neutral side is quite risky because you may become enemy for both the groups so motivate them in such a way that they realize their mistakes or if you cant do that then just call some adult,the fight will itself end there
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