Do you fall in love too easily?
By foisgras
@foisgras (205)
Sweden
April 19, 2009 1:58pm CST
After my divorce 4 years ago, I made a big step falling in love to person whom I met of course through the net. Funny as it seems but I never thought that I had to do this. I mean the net.
It was a wonderful feeling again that both of us felt like teens again after our sad divorces. We are in our middle age, so it was quite an exquisite experience.
Well I do not do bars, mingling with unknown persons and have not quite the tools to meet one. No one just knocks now a days to say, can we be friends exactly.
It all started in autumn when this person hit me in my heart! He is unmistakably not respectable and trustworthy. He is a professional liar with undetected skills. He looked into your eyes when he discussed and conversed with purity.
After 3 months knowing him, the silence and unpredictable accusations started. I was not trustworthy enough to continue with the relationship.
What do I say? OUCH! What would you say in such a situation? I can't get over it! I felt like I was buried alive and was not allowed to talk nor have a proper discussion on what went wrong. Any clue? If any myLot members has experienced this, help me get out of this negative feeling, in love with a wizard?
Should I contact him still even if he has literally asked me to go to hell? What do you say men/women out there?
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4 responses
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
no, i don't. i admit that i appreciate beautiful women, but that's it nothing else. some maybe infatuation and later i know, i don't have feelings for her. i know when i love a woman, it drives me crazy hahaha 
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
22 Apr 09
I want to answer to your discussion, is very intersting, seems that net relation can be strong or can be just a big lie.
But i really don t know what i can answer...just one thing, if je lie to you, he don t deserve you...i know very good what you feel belive me...are a lot of liers to net, as are a lot of nice peoples too. All is normal, in life is same...but when we talk about real love is something else, who lie in a love relation, is devil . I hate liers who come to net to make others to suffer.
And to your question...i was just one time inlove. i don t know if in the future i will change this oe not.
@drdivu (1011)
• India
19 Apr 09
well, that sounds sad..leave him..!! do as ur heart desires..its imp..more so take time before falling in love..!!
i had gone throsame but thankfully pulling myself out of it now..its paining badly but its imp for ME TO LIVE..decide and dont kill urself again..its tough but make ur choice..stand by it..
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
20 Apr 09
I have fallen in love just once.So I can't say that I fall in love too easily.As far as your story goes I am really feeling sad for you.However,I think I am too young to advice you.But one thing I can tell you that you can contact him to sort out your misunderstandings.Actually there is no real harm.If he doesn't talk to you, you will at least know that you tried your best and will not have any guilty feeling.But don't get your hopes too up even if he wants to continue the relationship.think about it and take a wise decision.
