I want to be happy

China
April 20, 2009 1:56am CST
I know that everything has two sides.We can be happy all the time if we really want to be,because that depends on our attitude.I just know that,but I can't follow what i thought. I always feel frustrated,and upset.When doing sth ,I just want to be better and better,while sometimes i fall to reach the goal. Everything is out of my control,I am not satisfied with myself.There are many exams in the future,and i am afraid of that,if i fail...there will be nothing... Nowdays,trying ones best does't mean you will reach the success at the end,maybe,you get nothing after trying your best to do one thing. I am just afraid of my future,about my life.AT the same time,I know that everything will be all right.Tomorrow is another day.
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12 responses
• India
21 Apr 09
hi.. look i know u r right by ur points but i will say try to b more positive in ur life.. as u said there are many exams in future, so let it b there. not to worry about that all u just have to top in those exams. whenever any problem comes in life.. dnt run out of that just face it.. n one thing more pray to GOD u will definetly get a way to solve out that problem.. so dnt afraid of ur future u have to be on the top of those exams... tke cre..
• India
22 Apr 09
thts really nice.. keep this positive attitude wid u always.. u will get success in ur lyf.. so keep smiling n face all problems.. tke cre.. hav a grt lyf ahead...
• China
22 Apr 09
you are a nice girl,thank you.And best wishes to you
• China
22 Apr 09
Thanks for your encouragement.I will try to face everything no matter how difficult it wil be.Alought exams may not be the best way to test our ability,but it is the most avaliable one in my country.I will try ,try ,and try to make it.And thanks again for your words.
@penny64 (1106)
• Australia
20 Apr 09
Sometimes it helps to concentrate on the positives in your life rather than the negatives. Perhaps take a little time to look at what you have already achieved, rather than what is yet to be achieved. You are special, you are unique, and you have something to bring to the world that no-one else can give. Think of life as a huge adventure - sometimes it will be great, other times it will be terrible - but you are ALIVE and you get to experience it all!
@penny64 (1106)
• Australia
22 Apr 09
It is really good to be able to find an outlet where you can talk about your feelings. I wish you well. Take good care of yourself. People do care.
• China
22 Apr 09
Thanks for your answer.I just want to express my feelings which I don't want others who around me to know. I just want to give them a impression of happy about me.In fact,I know what you said.Life was just like a box of chocolates,I never know what I am gonna get. And thanks again for your encouragement
• China
22 Apr 09
thank you for your words.Mylot is a good place to express our feelings,because nobody know me,and people here are all very friendly.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
We are all uncertain of what we might get in the future, that's why we just have to do our best to be prepared for it when it does come around. Failing isn't always final, we could always try again but, as ironic as it may sound, second chances are not that abundant, especially to those who are actually unfortunate in the beginning. We should always just have to keep an open mind and see things differently. Then again, we encounter situations that we simply can't look at it as another lesson but, defeat for our hard efforts. Being stoic for others might be hard but, being so simply accepts whatever happens for them, triumph or defeat and simply move on to the next hurdle.
• China
22 Apr 09
hello,long time no see.Do you still remember me? How is everything going? Thanks for your words.I will try to be happy as I used to be.
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Yeah, it has been quite a long time indeed (^_^ ) That's good to hear, be happy even through all those adversities that you might face
@substance (585)
• India
21 Apr 09
of course, my dear. trying for something does'nt mean that you will eventually gets it, but having a strong motivation will surely see you through. And i know since we don't know how tomorrow will turn out, we apt to take the easy way out or chicken out. But you should be optimistic and think that you will be successful in life in whatever you do. i believe in god and have faith that in whatever i do, i won't be given what i cannot handle. Think that you can do it and you will do it. Be positive. Good luck in your life.
• China
22 Apr 09
Thank you for your encouragement, my sister.Though we don't know how tommorrow will be,but we can enjoy what we have today.And now,I am happy like i used to be,because I have many friends like you on mylot,though we don't even know each other before.And I have my friends and my parents who loving me so much.I think that is enough.THANKs again.
@myl999 (2093)
• India
22 Apr 09
everyone on this earth wants to be happy either.but there are other colors of life too which u can not avoid..so lets enjoy all the colors of life...sorry,joy,quarells,and all others.
• China
22 Apr 09
Thanks for sharing.Yes,life is colorful,we should enjoy it.We can't avoid sth bad or said,the thing we can do is to face it and solve the problem.Then we can be happy.
@pro134 (45)
• China
21 Apr 09
it's important to you to make it significative,either success or fail.success dose not mean everything,fail does not meaning fail,it's another new jumping-off point or maybe another chance.we aways hope to control our life,but life like kidding us more,it bring us suddenness,such as pain,fail,despair,regret and so on.fortunately,we still can feel the sense that life give us. that is the real and whole life we require.what do you say?
• China
22 Apr 09
Thanks for your respond.You are so right.In fact life is so beautiful,and people around me are so friendly.I should be happy.And now I really is.Thank you and thak for people like you on mylot.
• India
20 Apr 09
well i was the same as u some months ago. but recently i made an online friend she is very good , and she really turned me up into a happy boy..well i can tell u that you should also make some new friends , specially those who r very positive in their nature and also helping.Well i can do my best to improve others ,this also helps me since when i help others i feel good and it feels like ur helping ur self.well and u should never disappoint. the best way to do that is to remember the person who ever helped u in the baddest hour. well for me i just remember that girl who made me cheer up when i was feeling sad. that gives me a lot of courage.maybe u can try that too.
• China
22 Apr 09
Thanks.It's a good idea to have someone to talk about.Thanks for your sharing.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Apr 09
Hi, look, life is what you make it. you are frustrated and unhappy. Well that is not so important, what is most important is how you take them as? You seem to be complaining that you are so and so and a lot others. Try to look at the brighter side of the things. Even amidst your work you would find some time for yourself and that is your time. Stop fretting and stand on your heel and see how things work for you. All the best.
• China
22 Apr 09
Thanks.You are so right that life is what we make it. Nothing can stop me being happy if we really want.Thank you for your encouragement.
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
20 Apr 09
Naturally, things in life may not work out exactly as we wish. In such situations, we don't have to be discouraged. You may have put in your best to achieve your target, but at last it becomes a failure. Always do your best and leave the rest for God. Be happy. There's time for everything.
• China
22 Apr 09
thank you for sharing.I like what you said,"do your best and leave the rest for God".you are right.There is something ,if we try,we are the winner,no matter what the result it is.
@momoftwo (94)
• United States
20 Apr 09
Try to focus on what you have and not on what you don't have. At the same time realize there is NOTHING wrong with failure. Everytime we fail, there is something to learn from it that will make us stronger for the next challenge in life. If everything was easy, you would probably loose interest in it. Our minds need to be challenged. We all have doubts and fears, but it's important to recongnize the facts. Why are you doubting your what is it about the exam that scares you? Is it the classroom environment.... then maybe meditation would help, if it's the fear of not knowing the content.... then find another way to study and have fun with a class mate. And at the end of the day.... trust yourself. you know what's right and you are a smart person. Just don't overlook all the simple things you have now, this very moment in front of you :-)
• China
22 Apr 09
I just don't want to have exams.I used to be good at doing exams,but,in fact,I just know that.I am not good at communicating with strangers,and i don't know what i can do except studying and examing.I just don't have the ability to do well in anything.That will make those who thought I was a good student feel disappionting.So I dont want to have any exams at all.I think i need more practice in reality.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
20 Apr 09
Hi Sunying, I guess you are from China as well, are you still a student? If so, congratulations! I've been graduated about 3 years. And i missed my college life the most! You know why? Because you are more free in college, you can have a boyfrined and girlfriend, you are far away from your parents and you don't need to listen their whining all the time. Life is so beautiful! Why don't you enjoy yourself? Just relax. i think you are overworried. Everything will be just fine. I am not saying that if you enjoy yourself then you will gain everything, it's not that. I am just trying to say that, you should enjoy your college life and study at the same time, then when you come to work like me, you will still have good memories of your school instead of compliant about you gain nothing from school. Good luck!
• China
22 Apr 09
Yes, I comes from China ,too.I know that,college life brings me a lot of nice memories,and I really enjoy it very much sometimes.However,sometimes I am just not satisfied with myselfe,though maybe someone think it is enough for them.Mylot is just a good place for me to complain,i think , the people here are all very friendly.It is very nice to meet you here,and thanks for your sharing and your words.I am glad to meet you.
• China
9 Nov 09
easy job~~ do what you want to do complete waht you think worth to do can't it be happy?