have you tried being betrayed?

I'm sorry to hear that, I don't experience this sitution. But I can feel your feelings. I think you needn't to affiliate with this friend, she is not honesty, it's not worth to make this kind of friends, she will bring more similar problems, I hate this kind of person. But don't keep sad, stand up! The sun is still red tomorrow. Good luck!

I have been betrayed many times. It is a terrible thing to experience. It's hard to find good friends. I can say though that maybe...just maybe....she fely syuck between a rock and a hard place and I'll tell you why..hope you got a minute..lol. I had a married couple as friends a long time ago. I was very close the the wife and we were at the time best friends. I worked at a resturant where he was a manager. My friend worshiped the ground he walked on. She stayed at home but got up every morning at 4AM to iron his clothes and make him a hot breakfast. She loved him so. WELL..he started messing around with a girl at work and I was furious. I thought about it for a couple of days and then found out that girl was coming to their house and hanging out! While sleeping with my friend's husband..sickened I was. I told her what I knew and she was devastated. She was going to leave him but he talked her into staying and working things out. He would never do it again...but under the circumstance that she couldn't be my friend anymore.SHE AGREED! Well...she called me and told me they were getting back together and that I was off limits when they did..We both cried on the phone but I didn't give her a hard time..she had made up her mind and he was her husband..I had to respect that much. I did end up being invited over several months later and went but it was weird so I never really went back around. I did feel betrayed by her choice but what do you do? I have told myself I'll never get involved again but to be honest..I would probably tell again if put in the position I was...I don't know. Maybe your friend was afraid. Did she say why she didn't tell you?