do you forgive people with bad manners?
By Ritchelle
@Ritchelle (3790)
Philippines
April 20, 2009 6:59am CST
for me it depends on the person who had shown the bad act. if i know that there is no possibility that this person is aware that such act is unacceptable then it's okay. however, if it is intentional then the offender would hear something bad especially if somebody gets offended too. 
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7 responses
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
i don't have the right not to forgive such person even he / she is bad as long as he / she is willing and sincere to ask for forgiveness. He / she admits that it is his / her fault and so i don't have no reason not to forgive him / her.
But sometimes it depends upon on the how it affects me. If he / she did really bad which make my life miserable i don't think i can easily give my forgiveness.
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@gunjanpri (603)
• India
20 Apr 09
you are absolutely right dear. We have no authority to deny forgiveness to anybody. God is great! He creates everybody and takes care of all mistakes and good deeds. When he forgives us for doing anything wrong, how can we deny people from the same.
It does hurt, when somebody intentionally wrongs, cheats or harms me, but then I remember that even I sometime undeliberately commit mistakes, that might hurt people. As I always urge God to forgive me, so I pray to God to forgive them as well.
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@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
20 Apr 09
There is no point really in not forgiving them. They are usually oblivious to their bad manners or are very insecure and use the bad manners as a shield against the outside world. In either case, its not our task to judge or rectify nor can we expect anything better from them. So the best would be to forgive, forget and move on
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@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
people often offend other people by their habits. they may not be aware that it is offending to others. so my answer is yes. i must forgive and will be willing to forgive people like these. it simply boils down to how they were brought up.
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
Well, like what you have shared, if its an accident, I guess we could all forgive the mistake that he or she has made. It is an accident after all but, if its really intentional, to amuse themselves out of the expense of others, I guess it would be a long way before we should ever forgive them.
@kapil_poundarik (960)
• India
20 Apr 09
well i don't look at people as such with bad manners ,and i don't bother it is a good thing when u don't mind what people do , it helps you to keep ur mind clean from garbage. If u bother about people then ur mind will be thinking about them the whole day and then u wont be able to concentrate properly.
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