April 19th 2009 3:56pm

@jessi0887 (2788)
United States
April 20, 2009 8:17am CST
This is the time my sister called me yesterday. She called me with bad news. Tragic and sad news. First I will start a story. When I was about fourteen or fifteen my family started going to this church down the road. My sister and I became good friends with this girl named Mary. Even though we stopped going to that church through the years we remained friends. She dated my brother at one point. Then at sixteen i hooked her up with a guy down the road from us. At first she didn't like him but a few weeks later she was pregnant by mistake. Then I was pregnant. We were close during the pregnancies. We went swimming together. I went to her baby shower. She couldn't go to mine because she had her baby by then. I went to the hospital and heard her painful screams as she brought her first son into this world. I looked in the nursury after he was born. I changed his diaper when he was only a week old. My son and her son were play mates. She just had her second son back in january. But yesterday the news was shocking. My sister called me up to tell me her son drowned in his swimming pool. They were eating dinner and he knows how to open doors. He snuck out the door. By the time they realized he was gone it was to late. They performed CPR. He choked up water. EMT's rushed him to the hospital but something went wrong and he was pronounced dead. My sister, mother and i went over there at around 6pm. There was alot of crying. Men burning the swimming pool down. Praying. At 6:30 the hospital called Mary and asked if her son's organs could be donated. She said yes. It was the right choice but seems so hard even though it wasn't my choice. I was up half the night unable to sleep with that on my mind. This morning we got called. A two year old who lives near us recieved her sons eyes. The two year old was born blind and now he would have a chance to see. We haven't heard if his other organs were used. Its just hard right now.
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• United States
20 Apr 09
I am so sorry :( I am surprised they told where his organs went to.. they usually don't tell even the family.
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@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
20 Apr 09
I think the mother of the son who was recieving his eyes wanted to let my friend know.
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• United States
20 Apr 09
that is surprising too.. usually the donor doesn't even know where the transplants came from. they used to go to great lengths to keep the donor info and the recipient info confidential. it was nearly impossible to trace this well kept information. times must have changed since last I heard about it. you all are in my prayers :) God Bless you
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
20 Apr 09
I'm so sorry jessi, that is such a terrible loss for your friend and all who knew and loved her son. I have always been a big supporter of organ donation and I do hope that your friend takes comfort in knowing that her loss will provide many gifts to others.
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
Oh im so sorry for your loss. I know its so hard to loss someone who's close to our hearts. May the little angel of your friend rest in peace. *sigh! Although a tragic accident happened but the bright side is, another angel is about to see the world because of the selfless act of your friend. Hope she will feel better soon. She's lucky to have a friend like you, whom she can count on over the years.
@camomom (7535)
• United States
24 Apr 09
I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine what all of you are going through. I'm so happy that his organs are helping others though. All I can say is that my thoughts are with you and your friend.
• United States
1 May 09
I know that this discussion was started 2 weeks ago but I just want to say my heart goes out to you and your friend. To lose a child is very hard and I could not even really understand it myself. I pray that their hearts are comforted because the pain of losing someone close like a dad, mom, brother, sister, or child is hard really hard. I lost my dad in 2006 and I miss him very much. Take care and I will be thinking of you and your friend.
@chillpill90 (1936)
21 Apr 09
im sorry about your loss, and i know it must be hard right now, at least the 2 year old has had his live improved. you need to be there for your friend now more than ever as im sure you will be. i dont really know what to say that story is just tragic.