Do you bite your nails ?
By K.Rajib G.
@krajibg (11922)
Guwahati, India
April 21, 2009 2:53am CST
Psychologists hold that those who bite their nails are sort of nervous people. This is the outer expression of their lack of self confidence, anxiety or tension. Or they are too serious on anything they are at. Some people who I have asked denied this. The say it is a habit. But interestingly an addict nail biter quits this at certain time of their life.
What is your say on this? Are you a nail niter yourself?
Please share.
Rajib. 21.04.09
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63 responses
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
22 Apr 09
what are you talking Sanyorita? I am not going to experiment things which you have never done in my life. I am a human being, who is not subjected for an experiments.
I will go human rights council and would take a list of do and don't things.Then you will talk to me!
@sandymay48 (2030)
• Canada
21 Apr 09
Hey Sanadoodoo, If you dont like the taste on your nails, dip them in chocolate or peanut butter first and then bite them..Its a whole new experience.
Not that I know for sure, because I was never a nail biter...
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@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
Yeah I have read too that biting nails is a sign of lack of self-confidence and nervousness and in general all habits are. Habits is a way of releasing tension or getting our minds to think of something else when we're usually nervous.
I do bite my nails when I was still a kid. Luckily I was able to get rid of that bad habit cause it's unhealthy. Our hands touches anything and so it's dirty and we can get sick from biting our nails.
I don't know how I was able to stop it. I just realized I am not doing it anymore. I have a friend who even in our high school years she still bites her nails and oh my God, her fingers looked ugly already hehe.
Ciao!
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@nee_raks (205)
• India
21 Apr 09
naah! my momma told me that nail bitting is bad bad habit that's why i don't.
Otherwise i am very nervous guy with no self confidence at all...and who knows if mom dint stopped me in my childhood i could win the best response in nail biters category for being best nail biter
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@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
i'll say i'm not a nail biter but i have a tendency to put my thumb nail tip in between my front teeth. i do this if an authority tells me something i really am not aware or guilty of.
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@larish (2202)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
It can be true. I used to bite my fingernails when I was in my teenage years, 13 to 15 y.o. I must agree that I still lack the self confidence then. I stopped when I turn 16, It is the time that I have gain confidence and respect of my friends and acquaintances.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
24 Apr 09
I have to laugh. Some people here are truly obsessed about dirt and filth and disgusting and/or gross germs. These are some of the words used to describe the act or habit of nail biting. If I do something to soil my hands, I wash them. Yes, I'm a nail biter and I also eat with my hands (shock horror). I even pat my animals and then eat a sandwich without washing my hands! Oh dear...I must be a walking, talking virus!
When you've had children and kept animals and cleaned up after both animals and humans you tend to get over seeing everything as gross and disgusting. I'm as healthy as a horse and so are my kids...I reckon a few every day germs everyday help build up our immune system and help fight the really dangerous germs.
@cortney09 (1345)
• United States
23 Apr 09
I used to bite my nails, but I have almost seemed to grow out of it or maybe I have just stopped doing it. I now pull on my eyelashes though. I think that is from my anxiety though.
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@cortney09 (1345)
• United States
26 Apr 09
I understand that it's part of my ocd and it's like someone pulling their hair. I like my nails long, so I decided to stop biting them a while ago. I think that I almost just grew out of it.
@Annmac (949)
•
22 Apr 09
I think nail-biting may begin because of nervousness or insecurity and then becomes an addictive habit.
I'd love to know at what age you are supposed to quit though, I'm 58, my sister 50 yet both of us still bite our nails. Me - it's often when I'm bored, but my sister does it all the time and doesn't even know she's doing it. lol. Neither of us are nervous people, it really is just a bad habit we've never outgrown. My other 3 sisters and 2 brothers have never bitten their nails at all!
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
23 Apr 09
It might be because your nails are weak from biting them for so long. That is, if you bit them for a long time. Try filing your nails from corner to center on both sides and then straight across on the top. This should help strengthen them. I used to work as a nail tech and I learned this in school. Kathy.
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@pickwick (858)
• India
21 Apr 09
Hi Rajib!I used to bite nails and to overcome that habit my friend suggested an idea which worked.She told me to grow my nail and keep them well polished with nail polish.so, whenever I take them near my mouth to bite i dont feel like disfiguring my nail and take them away from my mouth!Yes ,I used to bite my nail when I was nervous or excited about anything.
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@abanerji (1026)
• India
21 Apr 09
hi rajib dada!
m not a nail biter.. not even when the Indian cricket needs 10 runs to win from 2 balls. well, biting nails shows low self confidence. well, there are some people who unconsciously copy other people; in this case it become a habit of some people.
to all nail biters,
just stand in front of the mirror and bite your nails... then see how do you look..? the way you see your self others also see you like that most of the time...once you try this.. you would not bite your nails anymore..
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
24 Apr 09
Hi sis, you said the very right word here I daresay. unless one realizes how it is to bite nails he/she would not realize the actual picture that forms as they are in the act. And the mirror would be a good guide to get rid of nail biting habit.
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@net_ankit (643)
• India
21 Apr 09
I don't have this kind of habit to bit own nails this is very dirty thing, no one should do this.
But I show some people whos biting nails many times I think this happed when they think something in their mind & habit.
So I dont have this kind of habit. I don't think that this is symbol of lack of Self Confidence.
@denisedora (190)
• United States
22 Apr 09
hello my name is denise and i am a nail bitter lol ne who ya i bit my nails when i am nervous & stressed i tend to play with my hair also guess i got a few issues lol it's all good i dot think it's all that serious
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@denisedora (190)
• United States
24 Apr 09
well I do bite my nails ut like I said it is not that big of a deal and I dont' chew on them every day. So I am not worried about it lol it's not like I am eatin my nails daily until the bleed or until i have nubs lol no worries have a great day
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
23 Apr 09
No I do not bite my nails, I beliee it is not a healthy activity and we should refrain from it.
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@vicky30 (4766)
• India
19 Jun 09
I never bite my nails.People say it is harmful for the body.all the germs within our nails will go in the stomach and cause problems.My friend bites his nails at college.I never know the reason why.I think they do it to keep their nails trim instead of using the nail cutter.
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@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
25 Apr 09
Im 53 and have been a life long nail biter. Why? I can not say. Seriously i do not know the reason. But the psychologists you mentioned above are full of crap. Coz iam the most laid back person you can come across.
I managed to stop for awhile when i was in my late 20's. Mainly coz i wanted to have long beautiful painted nails.
I noticed that i will chew them during a scary movie. Or really any intense movie.
I also noticed that when im riding the city bus. I will find a nail that needs to be trimmed or filed (a ruff edge) but instead i start to chew to even it out and the next thing i know it completely chewed off.
I have recently desided again to let them grow. I plan to carry a small manicure set in my bag for those moments on the bus. I have also bought a manicure set from avon that im excited about using. Soon as they start growing out.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
21 Jun 09
Hi friend! I am not a nail biter. I think it is defiantly a sure sign that someone is either nervous or developed a nervous habit. I think that we all read body language to a certain extent and that would be one of the reactions I would expect from someone that is nervous, uncomfortable, or out of their element. I think it may also indicate boredom but that would depend I suppose on the situation. Take care.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
22 Jun 09
Hi Jen, yes either the person is not so confident about his/herself or developing some fear factor.
Thanks for responding
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
16 May 09
Hello my friend Rajib Ji,
Since my child-hood, we were always shouted/rebuked for bitting nails by our parents,
as a bad habits. And same thing I passed on to my children and gran children.
Psychologists opinion is always welcome. But initially, it was due to sucking of bad elements
into our mouth and cause bad health. So we cut our nails at proper intervals. They collect
all dirt from outside as well as from our own body while we scratch etc. Bitting nails
clearly indicates frustration. Let's stop it. In my case, I am unable as , I am tooth-
less. May God bless you and have a great time.
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
22 Jun 09
Hello my friend Rajib Ji,
Nail bitting i sun-healthy and comes under bad-habits. While one bites nails, it inserts all dirt accumulated in the channels of nails, which causes more no. of disesses. It must be avoided. May God bless You and have a great time.
@sandymay48 (2030)
• Canada
21 Apr 09
Hi rajib..you give us all these great topics to answer but I notice you dont answer as well...
Do you bite your nails?
Well I must say, that is a habit I have never had. I was never a nail biter all my life. Sometimes they are too long and I need to cut them or I will break them then get mad at myself for doing it, but never do I bite them. Its a bad habit as lots of dirt can be embedded in your nails even if you just washed your hands.
Now tell us, do you bite your nails? I bet you will say NO!!
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
24 Apr 09
Are ho Sandi maro goli dirt ko. I do nite sometime. It makes me feel smarter. But not always.
Hi my dear I answer more than ask you to answer , just check my profile. You just do not give topic to post an answer to them. What a language -" ...dirt can be embedded in your nail..." loved the expression.
I just can not imagine breaking my nails. wak ...
Yes, madam , I too bite my nail as stated above but it is nor fun.
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