mylot morons!!!

Hi ANTIQUELADY I am sorry that I didn't respond to your discussion yesterday, I am busy catching up on things and not really active in mylot right now. I still have my notifications switched on and just had to see who would dare insult my friend. How darn rude. I think that if you don't have anything of substance to add to the actually discussion then don't bother adding your comment. You most certainly weren't asking him what he thought about what you thought about men smelling nice. All I can say is that it is no wonder at all that he has a star rating of 1, if I had the choice he would have a minus!! Just you see if he responds badly to any of my discussions, he will sure wish he hadn't!!!! There really is no need to be so nasty on a personal level! Ok, rant over!!

I have read it and inserted my comments there. I too don't like the way he attacked you personally. He is rude and does not know how to express himself politely. I don't understand why he act in such a manner especially in a social site like this. He should know that disagreeing with the subject should not give him the right to attack the poster with his deadly tongue.

What was wrong in that? It is diplomacy and everyone has their way of saying things, this guy had 1 star rating beside his name and I coudl see him in my discussions also. What you can do is report him but at the same time if you read that response in a different way then he had a point in his post. All he needed that used some cool words to get your attention. A post with disagreement is what requires for a discussion to become hot and be a part of mylot digest!

well if he responses that way., let it be, thats his opinion, and dont think it personally. anyways its just a discussions. and there are really people who are like that, and we can please anybody here. if he responses that way then dont say anything back on what he commented,

I answered your discussion yesterday and did not find anything to upset anyone,I did notice one discussion who thought he had found the reason for autism my friends son is autistic not funny.The other one is someone getting abit carried away with his love life,the one that attacked you must have been taken off,pm me his name and I will make sure he is not one of my friends,we only accept who we want Antique we must not be bullied.Take care love suzzy.xx

hey!! dear. i had the same situation once when i started a discussions and i did check the person out and even gave him a big long comments which serves him right. And i guess he learned his lessons too. i was thoroughly pissed off and i can relate with you on this level. I wish there is some way where we can contact the admin and requested them to delete some unwanted posts too. There are loonies every corner so don't worry, i guess we all have come across one. i will check out your discussions and maybe act my comment too. And of course we have the options of either rejecting or accepting a friend request, and it does serves him right.

Hi Antique, I just went and read that discussion and I read it twice....I did not see the rude response you are talking about. did it get removed?

Hi there Antique Lady. I haven't got to the other discussion, but i will search it after this one, as i feel i can answer it. I think that was a deliberate retaliation because you didn't accept him on your friends list, but this only goes to prove that you did well rejecting him on the first place. Yes i do believe that we have the right to chose who our friends are, and that's why they don't get automatically accepted. Take care !

Ohhh! So that is the reason! You denied him so he retaliated by responding rudely in your discussion. I was unable to catch that discussion of yours. I really am so busy these days and could not even participate actively in discussions here. Anyway, I think you made the right step when you denied his request. He proved himself not worthy to be friend by retaliating that way. And yes, you have the right to accept only those you want. That is your prerogative and mylot has actually given us the choice to accept or to reject. Just don't mind him. He does not deserve your attention!

I haven't read it yet but we all have to deny some people as we cannot keep up in their posts. Also, I have had to deny people because it has turned out that we have nothing in common. some people put hundreds and hundreds on their friends' list in an effort to increase the number of responses to their posts. I'm sorry that the person was rude - you don't deserve rudeness. Many blessings

hi Antiquelady, U may or may not agree with me is your wish but if you dont agree with me, it doesn't give me any license to be fighting with you or call you names or even be rude. We live in democracies and everyone has right to have different opinion. Again if he felt bad on your discussion , he either could have told you his concerns politely or ignored the discussion. Being rude with a lady is certainly NONO in capital letters, and about friends request i always send friends request to everyone who are not on my friends list and who have replied to any of my discussion, but if they dont accept, it is up to them. Not everyone wants to accepts requests from anyone so i dont mind, because if i did then i would be minding all the time as most of requests gets rejected. Anyways there are always persons who would purposely be rude to make others feel bad, they get sadistic pleasures out of this. best way i feel is to ignore them.

Hi ANTIQUELADY. That is the beauty of myLot you can choose your friends and you don't have to accept a friendship that you do not want. Unfortunately there will always be people like this and he was well out of order with what he said. Don't worry about it to much as there are many other people on here that love you

Hi antiquelady! After having read your topic here i went over to the one which is the subject of this discussion and yeah, the guy could have stated his personal opinion without his negative traits being so evident! If he can do that to a senior myLot member (and a woman at that!) almost triple his age how much more to other newbies like me? I just wonder, does myLot admin do something to discipline people like him? Me and my husband had a great time reading the discussion but that particular response just took the laughter away...sad, sad, sad that there are young people who seem to forget the meaning of the word respect.

Sorry about that ANTIQUELADY. It is not very easy for some persons to be polite at times. Some can do it in a gentle and elegant way but some are unable to handle situations. One usually screams on a discussion because of fear and luck of knowledge. This should not affect MyLot members if they encounter him. This should be a friendly and intellectual exchange of ideas not a war zone. There are already so many wars going on around the world. Let's just not encourage this person to intrude us having such a good time with the discussions. I am actually enjoying this website now. Cheer up! He is not worth your anger.

I responded in that discussion, but it must have been before the loonie attacked. I will go back and check it out. No, you do not have to accept anyone that you do not want to as friend.

hi Antiquelady, i didn't respond on your discussion about the cologne thingy but i did spent some time to read all the response and tried to look for the rude responder and at last i did.. as for me, yes! this responder had been very rude and tackles with her response..her words are not an appropriate words to deliver on the first place, if she didn't have anything good to say she must have kept her mouth shut and left the topic alone or might as well just sticked with the discussion itself.. still lots of stinky rats spreading virus here i see..hate these people..why don't they just leave mylot and the members alone...

I went over to that discussion you are referring to and I have read all the responses. . . . It was really a nonsense response. Correct English grammar does not matter here for as long as the message is conveyed accordingly. . . I have been twice victimized by rude responses and have been attacked personally. Not only that, I was even given a negative rating just for emphatizing her.

so right i just erased a friend from my list that got very rude to me in one of my discussions. there are TONS of discussions on mylot for people to answer that they might like. theres no call to deliberately attack someone. he just needed to shut up and go on to something that suits him more. some people just get off being rude to others. so sorry my friend.

I read the discussion and even responded .I didnt find anything wrong with the discussion and I agree with you.Today not all the colognes smell good and this is simply a result of the level of mass production that goes into this and everything else these days .Dont think too much about this guy he shouldnt have taken it so personal you were merely giving an opinion and thats an opinion shared by many perosn including men ..great discussion and have a good day

There are a lot of rude people out there and I have had my share.We should all try to put our negetive answers in a better form.Later Antiquelady