Where have all the good men gone to??
By jellymonty
@jellymonty (2352)
April 21, 2009 5:17pm CST
Ok I know there is no such a thing as the perfect guy but at least there has to be somebody out there who is closer to that. The thing is I'm fed up of being single!! Every guy I meet is either married, in a complicated relationship or gay. I dont do the bars, clubs scene as I dont go out to such places. I've tried the internet dating thing and most guys there are a waste of time. I'm now thinking of immigrating to Mars! Maybe they've gone there?? So does anybody have a clue where they are at?? Ok it could also be because am very fussy when it comes to dating guys.. The thing is if I let my guard down then all I get are average joes and well not so interesting guys so I'm going to stick with my fussiness thank you! So if anyone has a clue where the good guys are at, drop me a response... Cheers..
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@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
21 Apr 09
It Seems to me as though You've managed to rule out a lot of the possible readily available options for Meeting Guys! Don't You have Girlfriends You can socialise with and meet others? Do You not have hobbies outside of work,or aren't You a member of organisations,clubs,or a church? If not,consider some of them and involve yourself in their social activities-at least you'll then have an interest in common..You may have your sights set too high if there's nobody of interest that you've an opportunity of meeting..you may need to take it down a notch and take an interest in who's out there! Good Luck!
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@jellymonty (2352)
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21 Apr 09
Cheers darling.. I dont have alot of girlfriends as the majority of my friends are guys. Guys at my church are ridiculously boring, and all the other groups I've joined most of them are married, going through a divorce, gay, lesbian, you name it..
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
21 Apr 09
Do people still do flirting while out shopping? and if these Guys you hang out with can't introduce you to some of their friends,they're not helping!
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@ericsvoce (8)
• United States
22 Apr 09
If I may,there are plenty of US out here. No, seriously, has the look on my face said silently to someone that either I'm not interested or was it the "oh hell no!" she saw in my eyes. Either way I don't stay un-approachable. I'm cautious to offer to much wreckless eye-balling these days. To be honest with you, nothing interesting has come my way. I think its ok to stay particular cuz its your one of your filters. This world is so big and life is too sweet to deliver you nothing but the best. Remember the law of attraction cause its a law. Ya i know, I've sat back and prayed that my soul-mate hear me calling, and I'm with enough imagination and heart to know that even if she can't hear me, theres the chance she will feel me. I do beleive there are several soul mates for us. It depends on where we are at the time. the only clue for you, and I think it will save you some time and money on rocket fuel. We are not on Mars, salute
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