would you feel comfortable being alone in your house?
By itsme_cha
@itsme_cha (504)
United States
April 21, 2009 6:29pm CST
i ask this question because my husband start a job out of town, and so he need to travel and leave me in our house by my self, since i dont want to go with him i tried to be brave enough staying at our house in 4 days a week. i use to live in our house back home when i was single i have my siblings and mom so its not easy to all of the sudden i am living in our house by my self now, i hope eventually i will be more comfortable and overcome being by myself in our house.
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27 responses
@ktosea (2026)
• China
22 Apr 09
four days a week,I think you could overcome it,it's not a long time and you could do manythings alone,I also meet my g/f at every weekends and I feel not very bad about it.you could do some house works,walk aside outdoors,go shopping or seeing some of your friends and you could also be active on mylot.huh?
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@itsme_cha (504)
• United States
22 Apr 09
hi there, yeah i tried to think that its only 4 days a week i am alone at our house, i dont have that much problem during the day but at night i fee scared as you know i wasnt get use to be at home by my self, but i am trying to over come my fear, i hope i can get use to it. thanks.
@itsme_cha (504)
• United States
22 Apr 09
hi there, thanks for your response. yes i think eventually i will get used to it, even thought untill i am still have a hard time sleeping at night thinking i am by my self in the house. but i will be fine, thanks.
@arcidy (5005)
• United States
24 Aug 09
I love being alone mainly because I have so much freedom and I feel totally relaxed when im home alone and its such a great and wounderful feeling plus it is exiting to be home alone. I would like to have my own apartment someday but there just to expensive and I dont make enough money to be able to pay for the rent which I hope to get one soon.
@puneetchhokra (214)
• India
23 Apr 09
U r right that it is very bravery work if u stay home alone What actually the problem is if we are not habbitual of it then it can not became a habbit very easily..But i suggest try it.It will tell u that what actually it mean
@boogerman (1544)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Hi, itsme_cha! Well, I feel comfortable when I am alone in the house. I can do anything I want. No one is bugging me so, I am free. And also, I can focus posting here in mylot. This is my response, enjoy posting...=p
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@itsme_cha (504)
• United States
22 Apr 09
hi boogerman thanks for your response, i probably just be brave being at home by my self, i am hoping soon i would feel comfortable. thanks.
@Andrewdadon (4)
• United States
22 Apr 09
damn you're sexy as hell and i wouldnt leave your fineself at home if i was married to you, your husband needs to focus up before you get bagged up by some stud, then i'll bet hell start hurtin from that. anyways i think youll be okay and if you're feeling lonely you could holla at me and i could do what your husband doesnt lol. best of luck to you take care
@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
I do love staying at home by myself. I can do whatever I want, I can eat whatever I crave for, I have all the time for whatever I fancy doing.
What I don't want being alone at home is the fact that there are nobody else to share the happiness we experienced. Also, there are no one else to talk to and that makes loneliness and boredom magnified.
Don't worry @cha. You will soon get used to this. But if you really are not that comfortable yet, try to have some family or relative or friend sleep over or visit you from time to time.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
22 Apr 09
No, I would be fine if my hubby just leaves for work everyday but not for a long trip, I didn't feel alright anyway at the beggining living with him when he went to work until we got the dog then I have company and I can "talk" to him, I feel better.
@grid_runner22 (92)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
I know how you feel, it is really difficult to live alone, especially when you are sick and nobody could take care of you. Well, in some cases we have to make necessary choices especially when it comes to financial needs and our love ones must go somewhere to find some money... As for me, I live alone and its really hard.. So what I do is that I go to mall sometime, spend my time in the internet like posting discussions in mylot and a lot more. Have your friends invited too in your house sometime.. it will also help you with your boredom being alone and someone that you could talk to... always keep in touch with your husband so that both of you will still feel secure..
-thanks by "batman"
@txgrl21 (819)
• United States
22 Apr 09
Hi itsme_cha! I used to live with my parents and brother as well and I've never lived alone since I went from my parents house to my own house with my hubby and baby. If it were me I would be a little scared but as long as my doors and windows are locked during the night and I had my bible right next to me I would be fine. Happy MyLotting!
@MasonL (97)
• Trinidad And Tobago
22 Apr 09
Once I feel safe, I would really love to be alone in the house, if i'm afraid I would save myself the torture and go with him
@dbhtngr69 (3)
• India
22 Apr 09
yep I use to work form home and just like you, my hubby use to go out for work.
@qwaszx3793 (18)
• China
22 Apr 09
i love to be alone at home because when alone, i'm feeling quite comfortable without my parents nagging aroud.when alone, i will be able to enjoy a cup of coffee or a instructive book,which will refresh myself.so i want more time to be alone at home though it is not easy because there are 4 people in my collage dorm.
@coolchai (753)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
hi there, i know how you feel. i freak out when im alone really even for just a day. however i have experience being alone since childhood and being alone is the least thing i want to happen to myself. so what i do i just keep on the TV on so that i will feel that there is someone in the house beside myself and if not the TV maybe the radio too. if that doesnt work, just call a friend (girl) ofcourse your husband will kill me if i suggest a guy! to company you. and it would also be nice to have a hobby like crocheting or simply reading? goodluck gurl! happy mylotting!
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
It would be tough knowing that you are used to having companion at home most of the time and all of the sudden you will be all alone for some days of the week. Just make sure that you keep the house under lock and keys to prevent bad people from intruding while you are all alone. Well you will get used to the set up. If I am to be alone at home I will surely be afraid but it is a matter of getting used to it.
@rakesh284 (1472)
• India
22 Apr 09
I like to stay alone for two days maximum.
I have habit of staying with my parents and will always stay with them.
Well when some event is there at my native place or due to some emergency work sometimes my parents have to go to our native place in hurry and during that period I have stayed alone at my place.
It was nice experience because I was the king of my house free to do whatever I want.
Just few movies then TV and eating whatever I want just ordering it.
@lovelyruth1 (50)
•
22 Apr 09
I would love to be alone at home but not for a long time,
When u r alone you can do whatever u like.
Play d music loud,cook n eat wgatever u like,
Call up friends for party..
@gangis (241)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Im used to be alone in our home. My parents always go to their works and my siblings go to school. And though i felt lonely, i used to manage my self and make comfortable for me. I have a computer to keep me busy. I do some stuffs like chatting, surfing, playing games and others. i know you will overcome your loneliness just think of anything that will keep you busy. Take care....
@allen_yuen (21)
• China
22 Apr 09
peace and quite , right.
I used to stay at home by myself, my father often go on errands for a long time , leave my mom and I at home, and my mon need work in all day , I only meet her in the morning, a majority of time I stayed at home alone, sleep , internet, what's all, I will not feel boring at home , coz I will find some works I like,but I am not house man,