How to know a person is Bipolar

United States
April 21, 2009 7:58pm CST
This discussion is not intended to bring embarassment to some, but instead to bring light to others. I have been living with a person for quite some time that seems to have the symptoms of being Bipolar. Said person, always seems to be fine at one moment, and then the next moment they are a rage rampage. I have been doing a little reasearch (on the side) to help myself gain a better understanding of this "illness". I am asking that anyone who may have more info, who may be living with, know someone or is someone with Bipolar to please respond. Thanks for your time. Awaiting your response.
4 responses
@LevysLuv (238)
• United States
22 Apr 09
I'm not exactly sure what your question is. I am a person with Bipolar disorder. Mood swings are certainly a sympton of Bipolar but it doesn't mean said person is Bipolar. There are other symptons such as manic episodes, going on shooping sprees spending money they don't have. If at all possible, I think it'd be best to get said person to a psychologist to eveluated.
• United States
22 Apr 09
Thanks a lot for your comment. Each and every response it greatly appreciated. :-) As for my questio, I am only trying to find the basis of what Bipolar and the symptoms really are. I am happy to know that you can indeed shed light on this subject because you "suffer" with the disoder yourself. It is always great to receive input directly from the source, which is you. :-) Again, thanks for sharing. :-)
@LevysLuv (238)
• United States
22 Apr 09
I can tell you the questions I was asked when originally being diagnosed where "Do you get real manic and start things then don't finish them" "Do you go on shopping sprees with money you don't have." There was a great quiz my primary physician had me take when I was first diagnosed from her as being severly depressed. I think she got it from a medical magazine, not too sure. I wish I could tell you what it was called or where to get it because it was quite helpful. I'm currently on medications and have been for 8 months and they're still being adjusted. If said person is diaganosed as Bipolar there's not going to be a easy "quick fix." My psychologist infromed me it can take as long as a year or more to find the right medicine combination that works right for me. So it will take patience. One thing I suggest not saying is "Geeze, take your meds." Nothing angers me more then when someone says that because I'm not saying or doing what they like.
• United States
22 Apr 09
Wow, you are so informed! Congrats to you. You have given me some solid and very useful information. :-) I can totally understand how you feel about not wanting people to tell you, "you must take your medication", but you know afterall no one likes being told what to do. It's just apart of human nature. :-) I am so thankful to you for shedding the knowledge I have been longing to gain. You seem to be a very strong person, and that strength will carry you a great distance. Much success to you! :-)
@LevysLuv (238)
• United States
22 Apr 09
You may also want to visit the DBSA - Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance. There site is http://www.dbsalliance.org. There may be some helpful information on there for you.
• United States
22 Apr 09
Again, thanks so much for your informative posts. :-)
@laura1167 (149)
• United States
24 May 09
My ex has many of the bipolar symptoms but never thinks there is anything wrong with him or his behaviors. It's always everyone else. Or it's other people's problem if they don't like how he is. Let me tell you this as a warning for your sanity...if a bipolar person is not willing to get help then you should remove yourself from their life. My daughter is diagnosed as bipolar. She is in therapy and also taking medication but she is still very difficult at times to deal with. It takes a saint to be able to live with and deal with bipolar in the same house without losing patience. The quickest way to see the temper in a bipolar person is to say no to them. Unfortunately, we can't say yes all the time. Also, fixed ideas...can't think of other things and the brain-gears shift slowly. Mania is often easier to deal with but still annoying...this is when they are extremely uplifted and giddy. Hide the credit cards at this time. Depression doesn't always look like depression. It can look like rage or aggravation, bad mood and/or pestering. Also likes to aggravate others when bored. Keep in mind there are many types of bipolar and what I am describing is a mixture of what I see and have seen with my family members. It is only a little bit of information as compared to the many resources that describe symptoms of each type of bipolar. My daughter is still a child and I have hopes that by the time she is grown she will be stable and ready to deal with life as it comes at her. Good luck with your situation. I hope it works out well for you.
• Canada
22 Apr 09
My boyfriend has bipolar II and he was diagnosed about a month ago. I have learned quite a lot about it since we found out that what he had was not depression but the bipolar disorder. Just like the person you mentioned, he had violent mood swings and it is quite hard to recognize him at times. But these symptoms are completely normal. He is currently being treated with lithium - a salt based medication that is supposed to calm these mood swings and allow him to have a more objective look at things. He is also receiving psychotherapy once a week from his psychiatrist. There are a lot websites that can give you all the information you need on this disorder. If you like, send me a message and we can discuss it further. Stay strong and love this person as they are - that is what they need most.
• United States
22 Apr 09
"Stay strong and love this person as they are", what beautiful words of wisdom. :-) Thanks for adding your feedback to this discussion. Yes, the constant mood swings are really taking a complete toll on my life, as they consistently have me confused myself. This is a very serious disorder. How can one be treated for this disorder if they are not willing to be tested? I am quite sure you may not know the answer to that question (and maybe you), but once again, I give many thanks to you for your contribution to this post. :-)