Do you find it boring if your partner says "I LOVE YOU" many times?

Bangladesh
April 21, 2009 9:57pm CST
Well it just came to my mind. Those who are in love may say "I love you" many times and we all know it is kinda boring to repeat things. Some may get irritated with it or some may like it. What about you? Does hearing "I love you" makes you feel bored? Well for me, i like it everytime she say me this. And not only this. I guess she also likes it that i tell her this many times. I can't say how many times we say this sentence to each other. And there whoever says this the other always replies.lol It feels so great when i hear from her. And makes me want her to say it more. Also when she says how much she loves me and how she feels for me makes me love her more. Well the truth is i have the same feeling for her. But i like to hear it from her and its really great to hear from the person you truly love.
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• United States
23 Apr 09
It's not that hearing "I love you" would get boring. I would love for someone to tell me that they loved me twice a day.....Once when I wake up in the morning and again before I go to sleep. And then there may be some intimate "I love you"s throughout the day. But anything more than this would be terribly annoying. You would almost cheapen the words. I think it is most special when you DON'T say it all the time. Then when you hear it....It catches you by surprise. That's the meal ticket!!!!
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• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
Well too much of anything is boring. But i think this law does not apply here. I like it everytime i hear it. Not only in occations but everytime.
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@jmhall (143)
• United States
31 May 09
If you know that the person actually has emotion behind the words then it is never boring but if it becomes almost, like a greeting or farwell then I can see how it would cheapen it. I know my partner actually has feeling behind it when he says it so it is not boring for me but that may not be the case for everyone.
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
Hi there dark! Long time no see hehe. Using the word I love you is a way of expressing our feelings with someone we care about. In my opinion, the "I love you" word is something special. Therefore it should be treated special and thus not used at all times by saying it to anyone. There are people who says I love you casually like to them it's just an ordinary word. I'm not the type who always uses the word even with my former partner but that doesn't mean that I love him less or that it's boring. I'm just not the type whose very vocal with my feelings to anyone. I just don't like saying it unless the moment is really special. Ciao!
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
Hello iskayz, Nice to see you. Well i am also not expressive type. But with her i say it more. And it does not loose its special meaning when i say it or she says it.
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• Philippines
23 Apr 09
No way, I love to hear and express those words over and over again, it is a re affirmation of our love together that binds us as husband and wife. Although we know it already but definitely it is such a wonderful thing to hear that comes out from your mouth. I guess there are many ways to express it also after when you do something like a favor to your partner then express it, it is such a wonderful feeling, and lastly, I think it brought husbands and wife together, if both mean it.
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• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
Well i have not been married yet.lol So don't know what it feels like.lol
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@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Well saying what you feel to the ones you love is never boring for you know that saying I LOVE YOU many times is not enough to show how much you feel for that person thats why we tend to say this line over and over again and it never bores us for both you and that person feel exactly the same way....hmmm I w3as just wondering since you are with a girl right now why wont you consider male wash if such product do exist lol surely your gf would like it
• Bangladesh
22 Apr 09
Well you are right on this. The words are not enough to show but the feeling is what is important. The other can feel it what you feel inside. And that makes you say the line again and again "I LOVE YOU".....well she likes me the way i am and i don't need to use your product to make her like me....
• Bangladesh
22 Apr 09
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@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
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• China
23 Apr 09
I won't find it boring if my lover says "I love you" from the bottom of her heart. She says it and means it. But I don't want it to turn to a habitual sentence without emotion.
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
Well some people don't like it i guess.
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• China
23 Apr 09
We never say "I love you" between my parents and I ,but I can feel the deeply love they give me and how deeply I love them . we always hard to say so.but it don't matter and if one day ,they aways say so ,I think I will be surpised at the beginning and accustomed later.and maybe ,I also need to do so .Love is a happy thing,yes ?do not feel boring.
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• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
You are right
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• Philippines
22 Apr 09
I don't find it boring if my bf tells me I love you so many times and I would never get bored hearing it. My bf told me that he would never get tired of saying and repeating it to me as many times as he can as he really loves me. I also like saying I miss you or I love you to my bf to reassure him that I really do. There are times that I would be asking him "Why do you love me?" even though I am sure that he really loves me.
• Bangladesh
22 Apr 09
Well also ask this question "Why do you love me so much". She never answered this question of mine.lol
• Bangladesh
22 Apr 09
@helscream, Well i know how she feels for me. But it feels good when i hear these things from her. Really it gives me more pleasure though i know the answer. And i agree with you. Love needs no clarification. Love is meant to be felt for the person you love..
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Well you know dark there are times that you need to ask them coz if you know how you feel and how she feels for you I guess the answer is just the same. Love needs no explanation or clarification just feel it to believe it
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 09
Why are you bored listening to this lovers words? Once you're married to her you'll hear less and less of it coming from her. Enjoy it while it last.
• Bangladesh
24 Apr 09
I am not bored.... I like it everytime she says it... Well i hope she never stops saying me these words because i like to hear it from her.
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 09
Hello darksorrow, Oh, I missed the train! So, you are in love right now.... Well, to answer your question, I think most women love to be loved and whenever they hear this three magical words over and over, they feel like worth living! I love to say this to my husband but unfortunately, my husband is not a romantic person. For him, when you love someone, it doesn't mean you have to tell over and over the same thing - that person should know by herself how much you love her. That's what he said to me when I complained for the very first time. But again, even though I love to hear these words from him, I don't feel it is necessary to say it over and over in a day. It some kind of boring too - that's for me, I don't know about others.
• Bangladesh
24 Apr 09
Hello gr8life... Well just fell in love recently... Well for me it's not boring at all. She likes to say it to me and me also. It's not boring for us to these many times. [i] And here is a reply from her specially for you:[/i] well sometimes words are not needed if you are with that person in which you could show how much you mean for each other,but in my case me and my BF are very far from each other and all we have are words to express how much we love each other. And saying this words I love you all the time seems not enough for us to feel how great our love is. It would really be great somehow to be with the ones you love and maybe words are not needed when you are with your love. when you are apart words are badly needed to show that person how much you love them and when you are together actions enough to show them how much they mean to you.
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@spalladino (17891)
• United States
22 Apr 09
I never get tired of hearing my husband say that he loves me. We normally end phone conversations by saying it, when one of us leaves we say it and we say it before we go to sleep at night. You never know what could happen.
• Bangladesh
22 Apr 09
That's really nice to know you don't get tired. Well we say it many times in our conversations and when it is the time to say bye it becomes too tragic for us......and takes lots of time to leave because none of us want to leave...
• Canada
22 Apr 09
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@camomom (7535)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I love to hear it too and I love to say it to him. You never know how much time you truly have with a loved one. They could pass away at any time. You should let them know how you feel everytime you see them or talk to them. It could be the last time you get the chance to say "I love you".
• Bangladesh
29 Apr 09
Well i don't think like that. I have no thought if one passes then we may not say this to the other person.I like to say it and she like it also. That applies for me as well.
@camomom (7535)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I like to say it also and so does he. I do think that way because it happened to my mom. Her boyfriend was killed. They didn't get to say goodbye or say their last I love you's. They got into a fight just hours before and she doesn't know if he knew that she truly loved him. I have to think that way. I also never go to bed mad or leave things unresolved if we have an argument. I don't think it's a bad way to be. There's nothing wrong with telling someone that you love them repeatedly regardless of the reason behind it. I tell him because I want to and because I mean it every time I say it. He feels the same way.
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
yeah its not boring especially when the one you love was far away from you. It is the only way you can express to the person how much you love him/her (but needs sincerity and sweetness). And it its a music to one's ears if you keep on telling a person how much you love him because words are powerful. So never stop saying to a person how much you love him/her befor its to late. It is also applicable to the people around you because words are useless to people who are gone because they can no longer hear that from you. =) Me, i always I told my mom how much I love her. I say it and make her fill it. But remember that love requires action because it speaks louder than words..=)
• Bangladesh
22 Apr 09
Well hels, You are also right. When there is only words alone then it is needed. But even if the words are not there you can feel the one you love. You know what i mean.
• Bangladesh
22 Apr 09
Well my friend i am not that expressive person myself. So i don't tell anyone of my relatives how i like them. But they already know how much i love them. Sometimes words does not require to express your feeling.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
but sometimes dark words are also needed for the action to be felt.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
31 May 09
I like to be said that sweet word many times. I will not get bored and irritated instead I response also w/ him with good attitudes also. Hearing that phrases makes me feel alright and fantastic. I'm always loveable for it . Its a very expressive kind of spouse he is if he tells me like that. But I only heard seldom from him. Actions speaks louder than words.
• Bangladesh
31 May 09
When you are far away from each other then only words can give you the joy.
@Elie6208 (58)
• United States
31 May 09
Well, darksorrow, you are a very lucky guy and I am happy for you that you guys are so much in love. As for me, I would never find it boring. I actually would wish he could say it more often to me. And now that I think about it, he always says "I love you" once I say it to him, he's never said it to me on his own. Even though, it is a fact, that saying "I love you" most of the time is just an act of an everyday saying and most say it because it is how they react to an everyday conversation. But I am glad my significant other loves me, and I know he does. And even though I would love it for him to say it more often, I am just happy to know that he is there for me, bacause he always is, everytime.
• Bangladesh
31 May 09
We exchange these 3 words more often. If i don't say it then she says it. It feels really great. And it became a need for me to hear "I love you" from her everyday. My day won't get complete without these 3 words.lol Anyways i just like to hear it from her. I wish your boyfriend notices this and starts saying "I love you" to you also. Have a nice day.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
22 Apr 09
i think it's great y'all tell each otheer that so many times. i would never get bored when somone telling me they love . my kids never talk to me that they don't tell me & my little grandson does to. i love it!!
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
Well glad to know you love it.
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
well its not boring at all i me and my partner never get tired of it and in fact with those words,our relationship is more stronger because thats the part of the action we are making in our relationship.I love my guy and i always say i love you to him to show my feelings everyday well as for now thats what i can do because we are dealing distance relationship.
• Bangladesh
22 Apr 09
Well distance relationship is really painful. You are away when your hearts are so close... Well good luck to your love relationship...
@dante_off (607)
• India
23 Apr 09
I have never experienced such a thing till now!!! But I think if I would love to hear that... ~Cheerio~
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
Well you will surely like it
@gerard09 (75)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
I have never get weary hearing my wife saying "I love You" everyday. Actually, i love it! It makes me feel appreciated, loved and cared about. I don't understand why some people find it tiresome and trite. We should always make our loved ones feel appreciated everyday and by doing that say these three words, "I Love You".
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
Well i say it many times to her and she also says this. But i want to give her more. Well i try to give more. The best thing is that she likes the way i am.
@kmurphy (46)
• United States
22 Apr 09
I abosultely love it when my husband tells me "I Love You". Matter of fact I can't even tell you how many times a day he does tell me. I can't keep track. Truthfully it is a perfect idea to tell your loved ones everyday, every chance you get to express "I Love You" and your feelings, because you never know when that one chance will come and you can't and then you sit and wonder "Did I ever let him/her know exactly how much he/she menat to me?" Speaking from experience...One of my best friends was going on a little trip and the night before he left I put a note on his car window asking him not to go....well unfornutely that note didn't say enough, because he got into a car accident on the way back and passed away. Point of the story is that I should have wrote in the note that "I love You Dear Friend" or shown some kind of love instead of my last words to him being so short and not loving enough. So I regret everyday since 1997 that I didn't write more on that note....
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
That's really sad you could not tell that person about your feelings. Well it's life and sometimes people regret after when there is nothing to do. But i am happy for you that your husband says those three words many times to you. And you also like it. It's just great.
• China
22 Apr 09
I'm sorry I don't agree with you,What dou you think about someone who losts their love from dad or mum?
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 09
Well parents always loves us. There is no doubt about it. May be they fail to show the love but still they love us.