What kind of things that make you not confident with yourself ?
By cahyorini
@cahyorini (315)
Indonesia
April 22, 2009 1:47am CST
Can you share to me what kind of things that make you will not confident with yourself ?, please describe it detail about it, such as your appearance, physic, profession or social status ? or what kind of situation can make you are not confident with yourself, maybe when you are in the middle of presentation, meet your mother in law candidate or anything, just tell me. Happy myloting my friends and have a nice day.
5 responses
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
22 Apr 09
Honestly the only things that make me lose confidence in myself are my closest friends who on occassion say mean things when they're angry.
@cahyorini (315)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 09
Hi zoey, what a rude friends you have, just told them that you are not comfortable with that, i think if they are your closest friends they will understand. Thank you for responding my friend
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
22 Apr 09
We all have our faults. With the two I'm referring to, one is bipolar. The other OCD, mildly schizophrenic, with a traumatic brain injury that affects his entire personality. He was one person before his accident, and four days later it was like meeting someone entirely new...
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
22 Apr 09
Well, i think everyone has flaws and we're the ones that are always good in spotting our own flaws. As for me i have TONS of flaws i believe. And one of them that i really hate is my teeth. It really makes me feel uncomfortable just looking at myself smiling. My front 3 teeth are sort of jutting out, you can laugh if you want to...Thing is, i can't afford braces..Sad but true, braces costs aroun 3K here and my parents don't have that kind of money, what more we are on 2 major loans to just pay for my tuition fees..=\ Sigh, it makes me feel sad and down when i see other people being able to smile with their mouths wide...Besides that, i's quite contented with everything else n my life right now...I'm not a very demanding person..=[
@cahyorini (315)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 09
I am not laughing at you, BTW why don't you try to buy braces with your earning in mylot ? maybe it took times, but it's very proud if you can buy things with your hard works. Cheers up my friends
@maezee (41988)
• United States
24 Apr 09
Great question, first and foremost.
I am just naturally insecure, but it makes me even moreso when someone makes a negative comment about me (especially about my appearance), or when I'm around people who are obviously WAY "better" than me (and by "better", I mean skinnier, richer, more friends, etc). It's the ultimate case of a girl COMPARING herself to others. And I know that we shouldn't..But I just can't help it.
@happy2009 (330)
• China
22 Apr 09
As a teacher before,my bad hand-writing made me no confidence about myself ,but my students are all very kind and they encourageed that they they don't think so ,now .my hand-writing are more nice than before,and this autumn I'll back to the platform ,I think that time I'll be not confident with myself again,hehe..
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
24 Apr 09
Hi Cahyorini,
I am pretty confident with myself for most of the time. But when i was in middle school and high school, i am not confident for my appearance (becasue my skin color is tan, my classmate in white(or you call it yellow for asian people), and because i am not from a rich family. Then when i was in college, all my confident is back, i think i am pretty and boys think i am attractive. I also good at my study, i won the scholarship every year. Now i am working, most of the time i am confident with myself, but when i face someone who have higher position and higher level of knowledge than me, i am lack of confident, i am afarid to answer their question because i am afarid to give them the wrong answer.
