Here has any body been ever rude on mylot?

If you really felt that mylotter was rude you can give him a negative rate.There must be some people who are rude and won't care about other people's feeling. U needn't be angry about such people. Just let it goes. It's no need to make yourself into a bad mood for a such rude guy! Take it easy, be happy!

hey. yes, I was rude once, but only in a defensive way. =p we were joking around I guess, so its all good hahaha. yes, you definitely did right :) cause fighting is never the answer, always peace ;D. yeah, people are so random sometimes xD like, seriously, what does that have to do with anything? oh well, whats done is done and tis all good now? :) anyways, Ima go. ttul, peace !

i fully agree with joyce and landi, my dear, i will also suggest you to rate him negative. he wont even know about it . i dont think one should be rude but if he is, that shows how good a person he is. i am here to make friends and not enemies. i love to be with them, if ican , and i also love to share my feelings and wanna know their's too. there are people who are great snobs and feel as if they are the only souls sent by GOD on earth. i just hate such people. mylot is such a good website that one can make so many good friends and can discuss anything . one can open his or her heart without any tension or worry on mylot . once a mylotter replied rude to me too and i rated him negative, i didnt like his response and once i was responding to a discussion and there wasa man from Pakistan, he responded to a discussion and was going to response. when i read that, he had written all sort of bad words and abused my country. i felt so bad, that i rated him negative. so thats the same thing. you can rate him negative.

Yes I think you done right, I recently responded to a topic on here where any response had to apparently, agree with them or you was in trouble. I was called a fuking idiot and other choice names, plus some stalker got into with lies about knowing me in 1975 and being out in SF, hell I had to put SF cause I can't even spellit much less beeen there. Responding only gives them the advantage of insulting and being mean again. Your topic as all topics on here are not silly, and if someone don't like it they can always skip over it. I think some on here just look for topics they can bash someone for. Seems some have no life and want to tear the ones that do down.

Hi agrim! I think that your discussion was probably really sweet! I am an animal lover so of course that's how I would see it! And I am sorry that I missed! You can add me as friend so I won't miss any more!lol Unfortunately, there are alot of rude people here and I find it best just to try to ignore them! There is no point in bothering to stoop to their level! There are more nice people here then there are the rude ones I am happy to say so try just to let whatever they say go if you can! Just think of all the wonderful people that are here and pay attention to them!

I'd suggest telling him that MyLot is for discussions, not money making, and since he only replied to your discussion to baump up his daily earnings by 0.005c why doesn't HE make more cash by opening up his own discussion instead of trolling on others? And then thank him for making you MORE cash cos you've now got double earnings thru'it. (Yes, dogs do fall in love. My old Rebel married his gf Mitzi and got her in 'the family way'. Then she upped and left him - he moped for ever. Not her fault - family moved. Sorry, gone off topic here)

there's always one..just try to ignore it. you can always report them if they really start bothering you.

i will never understand some people.. i try to never be disrespectful (unless the person is just trying to start up stuff and lying etc on theirs and even then i usually ignore) to others posts since something that one person may think is silly may be important to another.. to me these people are shooting themselves in the foot because most of them complain about the discussions they think are "silly" earning money yet they reply to them to tell them how much they think their discussions are crap JUST to earn the poster money!! where as if they thought the discussion was so bad they should just ignore it and not help out who they think doesnt deserve it.. now im not saying that yours was silly.. heck i answered it so obviously i didnt lol since i usually just ignore if its not worthy of my time.. i think some people just need to complain and make themselves feel better.. and i dont know why they would give you a lecture on rules because it didnt break any! ugh people are stupid!

Postings which are rude, flaming, abusive, and anything else which are provocative towards the negative are best left alone. Replying to them can bring further posts with negative content and will not create a good image for myLot. On the other hand it could be the way the person reacts to any discussion. He appeared to be sarcastic but maybe he was trying to 'teach' you on your responsibilities as a member of myLot. I am not trying to defend him. I prefer looking at things from several angles. You may have done the right thing to let it pass. At least there is no war of words between the two of you. all the best, rosdimy

It's best to ignore this at least the first time, we all have good days and bad. If you keep having a problem delete him as a friend, if he is a friend and you can always rate his response poorly. Most of the time I just hit the delete button and forget it.

go and ask your dog if she is in love with a dog Sorry but couldn't resist me from laughing. Sorry. I think the guy's user name is like vipin something right? He has 1 star rating and very very rude. He almost made me cry with one of his posts. I am very scared for his real life friends!

I'm sorry to hear that.It sounds so rude and impolite.Your idea is good,but it seems impossible.

Agrim- Unfortunately there are lots of rude people in life online and offline. On Mylot there seems to be a large share of them simply based upon the numbers (volume) that Mylot sees on any given day. I'll sound the others by saying I too try not to be rude, but I am rather passionate about certain topics that I know about, and those I care about. I can be rather direct and to the point, but I try to remember to say things with compassion and without judgement. However, I too have seen rude people, and have dealt with them since day one on Mylot. At first it hurt quite a bit when people would be rude with me, and then defend their own rudeness. Now, I tend to just repeat myself, state the facts, and move on. Though, if I know that someone is starting a thread that seems like it could be just there to create rudeness or "ugliness" as we say in the South, I just don't post. And yes, I tend to write lengthy replies if I can because that is what is stated in the Mylot Terms of Service. I'm sorry that someone was rude with you about your dog, I will have to see if I can find that thread and make my own response. Namaste-Anora

it is always better to not stoop to the level of someone who is obviously cranky or has issues. i don't understand why someone even responds when they aren't going to be nice. i have seen some rudeness but i choose to not get into it with anyone. it just isn't worth it. as far as your question being silly, if they thought it was silly they didn't need to respond. btw, your dog is in love? how cute.

Some peopel on My Lot are very rude. I encounter a member who claims to be religious. But than calls two 8 yr old girls some very bad names for no reason. I reported the comment to mylot. They removed the comment but not the thread. So, you can always report the comment to mylot to remove it. They will. They did for me.

Rude people are ignorant people...it's a childish thing to do and these people are generally looking for attention, as children do. I've been annoyed sometimes by a post I've read and I've been a bit rude. While I believe some people need to wake up to themselves, being rude is not the way to handle things, being intolerant is a fault of mine ...I usually move on but sometimes the post gets the better of me. None of us is perfect. Just ignore these posts and move on. Be the bigger person.

You are going to find some rude people anywhere. But as for here on my lot there are some rude people that I have come in contact with, but I usually just try to ignore it. that's not easy all the time though. I think some people just want to stir up trouble.

sorry u got treated that way. no sense in anyone being rude. if they don't like your discussion they are not obligated to answer it. i have just recently had a real bad experience w/the very same thing. a friend of mine reported him &mylot took his response off.it's very uncalled for. so since in people showing everybody what a jerk they are. hope it doesn't happen to u again.

I agree with one of the other mylotters here. You can rate his discussion negative and explain to him in a nice way why you thought your dog must be in love. Like she said, just don't stoop to his level. The best thing to do for rude people is to pray for him. There was no call for his rude remarks. I used to have a dog I thought had a boyfriend one time, lol. I know it sounds silly but I was raised on a farm and cattle and horses fall in love all the time. This guy needs to realize that animals do fall in love so it's no big deal. Kathy.

This world...is full of different types of people. Good, and bad. I really wouldn't allow what this guy said about you being silly or whatever get to you. Most likely, he is not very happy with his own life and he feels some inner need to down others to re-affirm his self importance. Best thing to do?...is avoid those people and simply not respond to them. You have a lot of people on here are NOT rude or ignorant and even share your views. You did absolutely GREAT by not sinking to his level and giving him the attention he is most likely wanting. Good or bad attention, attention is attention and the best thing you can do? Is NOT give him what he wants. The best way to give him a piece of your mind? You already did it. You ignored him. That will get to him more than any rebuttal you could think of. And you didn't have to sink to his level. Good for you! (::smiles;;)