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I usually am the first person that a lot of my friend go to advice for. maybe it's my ability to tell the truth no matter the consequences i don't know but nevertheless i am usually the giver of advice not the reciever. Anyway...my best friend of fifteen years repeatedly tells me that she is unhappy because she has been with her boyfriend for over for years and she doesn't feel that he is as committed as herself....she would like to be married by now if it was all up to her...but i feel like we keep having the same discussion weekly where i tell her kindly maybe she should let him go and see if he comes back or maybe it's time you moved on if his lack of committment is making you feel bad about yourself. however, i know that it isn't easy hearing these things from me. i repeatedly tell her i am there for her no matter what but i wanted to know if anyone had any advice on how to not end up being the bad guy in this situation