Just reconnected with my mother after seven years...

@cvodrey (225)
United States
April 22, 2009 2:07pm CST
It's amazing really. Just when I got to the point where I was coming to terms with the idea that she may never speak to me again, she calls me. It's a long story, but the gist of it is that she has some emotional problems.I confronted her about the emotional abuse she subjected me to as a child, and I addressed her psychological issues to boot. (suspected schizoaffective disorder) She completely shunned me. Now she says she loves me and she forgives me. But I can't help but wonder if I should put my guard down. I let her in no questions asked. She is my mother. I feel a little apprehensive though. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks in advance.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
23 Apr 09
This is tricky. Has your mom sought help for her emotional issues? I think you have to follow your gut instincts on this one...take it in small steps. I know you don't want to be hurt any more, but then it seems you were happy to hear from her. Love your mom without letting her hurt you. Best wishes on this.