Question:If your partner keep asking you frequently if you love her/him?

In my opinion, it is really annoying. In the first place, he/she should know if his/her partner loves him/her or not. Such question should not be ask. You can feel it. You can detect it by the actions of your partner when you are together or when you are around.

Well sometimes i really got pissed off, especially if im not in the mood. There are times that we quarrel about it. I know its normal to ask from your partner if he/she really loves you. But in my place it seems that he doesn't trust me that i really do love him. If he starts to ask all i say is if i don't love you i wouldn't be here with you.

Good question. But for me its the opposite, its my bf that says 'U know I love u so much right? or 'You love me right?'. I, the girl...dont say it as much, so my bf asks me to tell him more.. Do you guys like when a girl says it to you all the time?

I can understand and I must say this kind of question is really very irritating.But, thank goodness, my boyfriend, doesn't ask me such questions nor I ask him.This is because we both know that we love each other and would never leave each other for another guy/girl.We both trust each other and have strong faith in our love and yes, he tells me everyday how much he loves me,and I don't have any doubt about it.Love without trust is no good.

maybe it's annoying to me if ask me every week, or every day. but if she asks me every month.. i think it's not a problem hehehe

Yeah, it get's irritating at times. I think that it should be obvious. If a person did not want to be in a situation they wouldn't be right? Hence the answer, if you see me then I care. If I leave, i don't.

there are those people... just keep on assuring them about your love for them and i am sure they will most definitely not feel insecure anymore.

Hi! Ktosea! Yes, this type of question may irritate me for a while. However, I would like to assure my partner that indeed I love her and she should not feel insecure on this account. I can also add that even if I do not say in words, my caring attitude towards her and my deeds should tell her that how much I respect and love her.

in my opinion, a person should never have to ask whether he/she is loved. if his/her "better half" does, you wouldn't have to ask. as cliche as this may sound but he/her should be able to feel it with every kiss or every touch. the way he puts his hand on you or the way he holds you. all the little things that makes you smile is every inch of love he is laying on you. insecurity is linked with self-esteem. and if you're that insecure to ask whether your partner loves you, you shouldn't be in that relationship. love is something that comes naturally and genuinely. it shouldn't be forced or make your partner feel uncomfortable. so just sit back relax and when the time is right or whenever you feel like it basically just lay the L word for your partner to hear.

yup,i think what you said is right! in fact ,the ture love is established by trust! if you were not trust him or her,you are not love her or him really!!tell her or him what you thinking!!enjoy the day@@

yes thats really annoying when my ex boyfriend keep asked me bout that question... it just like he doesnt trust me if i love him or not... but lucky my boyfriend now seldom ask me bout that question cos both of us know that we love each other and we have trust to each other too...