How will you say goodbye with someone you love the most?

Philippines
April 22, 2009 9:09pm CST
Do you have any experience leaving a person? Saying goodbye must be the hardest. It would not hurt you but also the one you are leaving. Does the hurt from this experience teach you and make you strong? Or if you do not have any experience will you be doing it? What would be your reasons for doing such thing? I hope everyone is alright today! Have a nice day!
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• China
23 Apr 09
I still remember the day when my father was leaving my university after seeing I was safe in my new university. I try my best to control my tears when my father got on the bus which was leaving me.But as soon as he left ,I burst into tears.My brain is full of the pictures of my father,his smile ,his kind ,his anger , everything . Slowly,I calmed down.However,about 6 pm,my father telephoned me to tell me that he had got into the train. Finally ,I can't help crying in the telephone,and so did my father,which made both of us hurt.I really don't want to experienc that thing a second time . But not everything runs as we think of.Now I met my Mr Right.We love each other so much.I really don't want to seperate with him ,and I just want to stay with him every day,every minute,even every second.While we just have only one year to stay together ,because he will leave to branch university,which is very far from here.Now ,every time I think of the seperation ,my eyes would be full of tears.Of course ,I often tell myself that I still have one year to stay together with him .So I should cherish the precious one year.
@Lxandra79 (1535)
• United States
23 Apr 09
aww that was sad! you made me have tears, cuz i know how that feels! everytime i go to my country, and i have to come bak to the US...I start crying so much! I really, really dont like goodbyes!
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
23 Apr 09
my experience has been people leaving me saying goodbye has always been hard for me, still is. i'm sure it hurts u whichever way it happens. i still hate telling my sons goodbye even they both have been gone from homes for years. i don't let on to them of course.
@Lxandra79 (1535)
• United States
23 Apr 09
I hate goodbyes! I start ballin like crazy!
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
23 Apr 09
Hi Rikkabren, the hardest time for me to say goodbye is everytime i leave home. Because me and my sister both work in other city, so we can't see our parents quite ofen. We only go back home when we have holidays. So every time when the holiday is over, we have to leave home and go back to our work place. My mom and us felt like crying because she is so alone at home. Gosh, that's the hardest one for me to say goodbye. I just can't be strong eveytime i face the same situation.
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
I've done this before and it really made me a strong person (my friends told me that).It was very hard but when you think of the reason why you are doing it then you will see that it is worth it.The hurt will subside and life will go on for both of you.It's the reality in life that we have to face.
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
23 Apr 09
Saying goodbye to someone you love is very difficult but sometimes it is the best decision you can make for yourself and that person. Loving someone does not mean that the two of you are right for each other, we do fall in love with the wrong person from time to time. I have said goodbye to someone I loved very much, we were even married for nine years. We have since become friends again but at the time, when we parted it was very hard, it did hurt me a great deal, I did however learn a lot from it, It made me stronger and made me the person I am today.