to be a loving wife

thanks a lot hope my wife do that so

Very well said Willy, that is really the Ideal Wife should be. Prepare things in order and make sure before hubby arrives home, food is ready, massage his back and make him so comfortable because we know that pressure does at work. We have the responsibility to take care of our kids and at the same time have our bonding time with our spouse. I also work and see to it that after my work, i will take my attention to my hubby when he comes back home. I prepare his favorite food, massage him and we watch movie afterwards before we sleep. It is important also that you pray for one another and God is the center of your relationship.

I seem to remember reading something like this from an old 1950's guidebook for new wives. While it's nice to treat your husband good, it should be mutual and not all just about him. It would be nice if he came home, offered to take her out to dinner or just ordered dinner to give her a break, took the trash out and helped with dishes. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]

I am a loving wife but I dont think I could be at my husbands feet at demand. When he comes home if dinner is not done, then oh well. Our children come first. If it takes a little longer to prepare dinner then so be it. I dont "act" glad to see him I AM glad to see him. Our children are hardly ever clean come evening. Playing outside it's too hard to keep them clean. LOL.

you know what, you may enter HEAVEN in the after life if you are a nice wife just as you explained.. prayers for you [u][/u]

The phrase you mentioned goes like this: 'The easiest way to a man's heart is through his stomach.' I agree that it's soooooooo true! Most men like a good home-cooked meal they can sink their teeth into! So, one of the secrets to being a good wife is find out what his comfort foods are and do your best to prepare them often. If he is a meat and potatoes kind of guy, then making sure he has that on his plate will surely win him over. Or let's say he likes pasta or rice with his chicken or fish, then perhaps making some delicious chicken cacciatore over a bed of fettucine with a salad on the side may just be the warm welcome at the end of a day's work he will enjoy along with his loving wife. You can top that off with his favorite dessert and a warm cup of tea which is sure to bring a smile on just about any man's face. Savor the moments together now, they become pleasant memories in the future.

Willy, you seem to think that staying home and raising kids is something that you have little part in. So you work and bring home the money. I agree that a warm welcome and dinner is important. I will alway try to make the man I love happy, but what are you giving in return? Do you ask her how her day went, and do you actually listen to the answer if you do? a wife needs a husband to help her so that she can renew herself also, and I do not mean between the sheets. On occassion give her a hand around the house. It not make you less a man in her eyes but a more loving spouse. Women have needs too.