do you think single is good for now?

@luphita (114)
Indonesia
April 22, 2009 9:43pm CST
i am 17 years old and i think i feel alone with no woman. cause i can get no support from somebody whom i loved to... do you?
2 responses
@lawana_f (326)
• United States
23 Apr 09
I will not tell you you are to young for love, but you are not experienced enough to know what it is to stand alone, and without being able to stand on your own then you will not know who you are and if you do not know who you are then how can some woman love or respect you for who you are. Take the time to make something of your life without a woman in it and see where that leads. I promise it is not the end of the world to be alone for awhile, and I do not mean a week or two. When you know who you are you will know what you want in a partner in this life. Remember that love is a lifelong commentment from both people in the relationship. It takes the work of both people to make it work, and the work does not ever end. My guess is it is your bed that feels empty not you feeling alone, and that to me is a very sad situation. Bed hopping is never a good thing. It is easy to do that, but do you really know the woman. Will it end your life to get to know her first say six months before starting that type of relationship with her. I think you will find your life improves if you follow some of this advice.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
23 Apr 09
Don't feel alone..You're only 17 after all! Most people don't meet their soulmates until they're at least like 25-30, if even later than that. You should instead surround yourself with people who care about you - friends and family, specifically, and you won't feel lonely any longer. .