What you see from someone at the first time meet ??
By isakuiki
@isakuiki (95)
Indonesia
April 23, 2009 5:30am CST
Sometimes we meet with new people.after the first 'hello','how do you do' or 'nice to meet you' will be the time that determines.After that both of you can be friend,have great conversation or only smile every time you meet with.When I meet someone for the first time,I usually see if he/she is a polite person,if the woman,whether she loves tell gossip about people around us,whether he/she is arrogant and the most important to see whether he/she was clean and tidy.I immediately felt less suitable are with someone when you see a claw hands dirty.This is only the first assessment, we still can be a good friend, early assessment is not always correct, right? How about you? What you see from someone at the first meet or acquaintances? What makes you feel that he/she may not be suitable to you?
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9 responses
@hxstar (510)
• China
23 Apr 09
Hi,isakuiki
I will know whether he is easy to mix in I think,I care about this because I prefer to make friends with whom are easygoing.As you have said,whether he is polite is important too.We all want our friends to be polite,easygoing,helpful.However,the first accquaintance can not tell us more or sometimes we can get wrong information from the first view,right?So,we still need more time together to know him well.I once met someone who is really rude from my point of view at the first accquaintance.However,as I got to know him more,I found him really easygoing and we are now really good friends.You are right that early assessment is not always correct.
Have a nice day!
@isakuiki (95)
• Indonesia
23 Apr 09
Hi hxstar
I agree with you, need more time to know about someone.There are many ways to get to know like ask he/she go out to movie theater or just hang out at cafeteria. Lucky you, not following your first assessment, if not you might miss someone who now is your best friend.
Happy myLotting
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
Hi there!
During first meetings I always evaluate a person by the way they communicate. I think through proper communication is where good breeding as well as their personality are determined.
I always like someone who talks with respect, wit and humor and that impresses me a lot. That for me is the kind of impression where in I will remember a person.
Ciao!
During first meetings I always evaluate a person by the way they communicate. I think through proper communication is where good breeding as well as their personality are determined.
I always like someone who talks with respect, wit and humor and that impresses me a lot. That for me is the kind of impression where in I will remember a person.
Ciao!
@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 10
I see their body language. We can see someone relax or stressed by this. That would make me know how suitable he/she is for me.
@madhu_yl (116)
• India
24 Apr 09
Hi isakuiki,
First i say hello,after i observe his/her way of speaking,behavior,and how to respect with others,way of style...etc.but i feel nobody cannot say his/her is good or bad in first meet.i don't accept anyone to my friend in first meet.i take to time for observing he/she suitable to me.
@arkasen (748)
• India
23 Apr 09
Yes we all meet lots of new people every day. When it comes to judging about them then look at their appearance, body language, nature etc. If someones appearance is not good and he is not properly dressed up then you don't like to hang up with them. For girls if she is good looking then it does matter. After I like the appearance of the person then I see his/ her body language and nature. I don't like serious people. I love to make friendship with fun loving people.
@isakuiki (95)
• Indonesia
23 Apr 09
Hi arkasen
I feel the same way like you when meet someone for the first time and she/he not properly dressed up.why you don't like serious people ?have a bad experience with this type?I have several friends with this type,and so far our relationship is running smoothly. at the time I need help they are whose come to me first, entertaining me when I'm sad.
Have nice day arkasen. Happy myLotting.
@laedyan (189)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
Hello there. I don't usually see at first sight if the person is good or bad. I have weakness on this part so i have to converse with her for several times before deciding. Sometimes, i am mistaken by assuming something about the person i meet but not now since i learned my lessons. We can see a person's attitude maybe at first time but many times, they comes out after some time of being together.
@sarlyntenerife (326)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
yes.. that's the first word.. "hello.." and here it comes.. someone is now feeling close and getting impressing.. that's what i don't like. for me.. i like the person who are not trying to get impress to me. i like the real people. i mean the real person or his/her attitude.. of course, i appreciate his/her doing the impressing for me. but maybe it's o.k.. because that's only time we first met.
@fionatan2009 (45)
• China
23 Apr 09
i saw from her or his wearing.if i think hie or her taste gets my fovor i think we will be friends.at lease,i have the wish to make friend with him or her.
