would you feel uneasy if you saw some girl or boy in your partners office?
By cassandradab
@cassandradab (400)
South Korea
April 23, 2009 9:06am CST
would you feel uncomfortable if someday you will see other girl or boy that come over to your partners office and clean up the room of your husband or some guy sending some snack to your wife.what would you feel?will you feel jealous?or would you feel something?
3 responses
@michele_villasenor (624)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
No, I trust my husband. Besides, I don't want him feeling uncomfortable when he sees me with mine too. It think it's part of life, being with others, i mean.
@cassandradab (400)
• South Korea
23 Apr 09
wow your very strong woman,but how about someday ofcourse maybe you don't experienced yet,jsut how about someday you will know that somebody comes to your husband room and clean up his personal things.would you feel happy?someday give a hand for your husband? you dont feel something like have butterfly in your stomach?haha i think jeaslousy is just normal if you love your partnet but ofcourse trust is important.
@michele_villasenor (624)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
I think it's important that we have 100% trust in each other. But this does not mean I am complacent. I strive to develop a deeper sensitivity to his moods and feelings so that I will also easily sense when something is going on. Fortunately, my husband has always been open and that I do not really need to probe because he personally tells me what goes on in his life when we're not together. And what I hear from others around him matches what he tells me all the time.
@cassandradab (400)
• South Korea
25 Apr 09
sometimes 100% trust would break it.but really i admire you for being a strong one.i don't think if i could stand for it.but i trust my husband.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
yes, ibelieve i would feel uneasy, and well also it depends on how i would caught seeing them in the office, if they look serious, too friendly at each other, or sweet with each other... i guess i can always decide to know if there is really something going on that i should care about.
@cassandradab (400)
• South Korea
23 Apr 09
im not kind of a jealous woman but cleaning up my husband room is really a big matter for me.i dont used to see any person who clean up my husband personal things and its really feels not good for me i think.this is kind of embarassing.maybe i feel insult why other girl will clean while i am the wife?hahah
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
Of course i will feel uneasy about it. But if she/he is a friend of my husband it's not really a big deal. As long as she is not flirting with him.