I need some advice, please!!!

Thank you for all the advice. If you talk about my husband then let me open a little to you. He is a nice guy and care about children, but one thing about him is he is careless about that is around him. I dont know what to explain but that is the way he is. Everytime, I talk to him... he seem to wake up but for a while it gone again. Nothing can't hold him in one place or stay focus on one thing... he will forget and forget. And about leaving home to stay with my parents, that will not happen to me... cuz my parents are in different country and I dont realized on them either... they never know how hard I am and I never plane to tell them either. I love them so much and I dont want them to think or worry about me. My life is already start with this man and two children, so I have to move on my own and find solution. One day, I wish him to wake up from this dream and know that I am still sitting next to him, support him and care about him... and I want him to restart to realize how much I care and how much I love this family and him. But for now, I have to move on my own and think about my children first. I brought them to this world and I have to show them the road and I can't let it be like this forever. I strongly believe, that God won't watch me like this forever. Good thing will happen to good people

I admire your faith. I am sure God is watching and will take care of all of you. Good luck to you and your family, keep us posted on how you are going.

I understand and that what i do everyday, praying to God to help and direct me to somewhere and somehow to good future, and no more worry. I keep everything and try to pinch every penny I have too... Thanks I think I am not the only one going through this situation right?

Thanks, I dont take medication and I dont want to go crazy either. I still have my children to realize on. Of course, I am stress and I can't take it away easily but I have you all here to help. My husband doesn't know how to take care of that baby, but my other daughter then he knows. Kids are not the problem, I dont mind to take care of them while I am working... however, something else that is bother me. well, relax is my main goal to do now. I feel some release already and thank you so much.

I always be there for him and always give him support... I hope he feels that same way too. Online working is the mean goal i want to do while im free from working. I hope you give me a good advice.

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of course, I am smile... Thanks for all the words to me.

I am totally understand how you feel and how you go through cuz it is my truth experience. This is a Big, very Big ocean that I have to swim alone and along with people. However, I always stand and stand until the end of my life. Sometimes, I think "Whatever, and I dont care any more. All I know myself and my family" I never speak a word or complain anything to my parents or my husband. I used to think so much and worry so much about my husband... cuz he seem not to care about what is going on. After I learned about him for a while, then I realized that I dont really care or think too much ... I just do it as much as I can. God will help us get through this and we have to get up and stand as a Rock for our family.

Life is hard and life could be easy is depend on how you are. I believe that God draw me for. Right, I shouldn't feel tough... think something easy right? I will try and thank you so much for your words.

I will do what you said. Thank you

That's what I wish for you... hopefully he gets a job soon. you are still young, and you should think more before you step in family situation. Don't make the same mistake like me. I married too young and now all the responsible is up to me. Thank you for your kindly words

You are right, why should i think of something that make me feel bad all day right? children and husband are important and they are bring sunrise to my world. Thank you and I will try to cut out what I dont need. Thank you for your advice

Hi, first thing I want to say "Thank you". You and others are my world here, once I post this msg, everyone seem to care about me, not even me, everyone that has trouble to think and life. Future is still coming but it is totally slow on me. Do you want to know what I see now? Blank and black, it is so dark and that I can't reach... I wish and hope everyday to see sunrise in my way, I still praying while I am typing this msg to you. You know what I want? I want to come to work feeling happy, even if I dont have so much money like others. Now, I will do what you say... and I hope one day I will write back to you and say, Hey! I make it

Oh, that's very nice of you. Thank you... I hope my husband and my children realize the same way you are. You know being a woman is not easy, I dont know about other woman but for this woman, I try everything to make my family work. I do man work most of the time, as long as they know how to do then I could do. If you involve in my life just like my children do then you will know how hard my life is and believe me, No one know about it even my own husband.

Thx for the advice. I love all kinds of words you gave me, and i really want to sleep with 8-10 hours a day but i can't cuz i have two small children. The little never let me sleep well; 4-5 hours a day is more than enough for me. I eat healthy food and one thing that sound weird to me is about overeat. If I worry or stress about something, then I just don't want to eat or drink anything beside sitting down and find solution. But these have waken me up and I really appreciate you so much.

Thanks for sharing your personal experience. I totally understand how you feel during that difficult time. you are right, life is not complete lost but i dont know when i will find the road out and when will everyone understand my feeling. Nothing is stopping me and I will take your advice to put on my list. Thanks

I know my children are the mean thing that I need focus on... sometimes, I ask myself If I am going crazy or what... you have no idea how much hour I work per day and what I do to get this stupid money(12-15 hours a day) that not even include hour I take care baby and cooking too. My husband? he help me cleaning up and take care of the kids sometimes, but most likely I do. of course, I cut off every un-necessary thing that why I still have my home and my cars and everything I own. I feel so stupid to get my life like this and I dont want my children to walk in the same road as me. I want them to be happy and healthy and have enough money to spend. thanks for your comments

I know what you mean at this point, but I want to have two income that make my family more meaning. Only one income is not enough for us and our future... it is ok for us now but I want something more than this... thanks

Thanks for the advice, it is really meaning to me. I know one of us have to stay home and take care of children. My husband own a wholesale dealer, which mean he sale cars outside the United States. He corporates with his brothers, however the car sale is totally slow and all my money are stuck with cars. He doesn't know anything else beside car... he is also looking for job too but no one call him in yet. most of the time he comes and helps me at my work place. I would love to work online if you give me a good site. I want him to replace my work place and I stay home take care of children and work online. thanks again.

I thankful too, to everything that I have so far... however, I never stop working... I work just like machine and I am worry about my future life. Am I going to end up like this the rest of my life? i know most people doesn't have job and no food to eat, but do you desire this much time of work with just bills? hehehhee... that's make me want to laugh out loud. well, now I feel better cuz a lot of people here care about me and give me all the good advice. Thanks.... life is totally hard and I hope and wish someday, I will end up with hopeful and rich