how to give up a relationship totally?i`m puzzled.

You know what, I'm in quite the same situation wit you, but I don't think there's someone between us. Anyhow, it's really difficult to force yourself to get over a person you truly loved. But, it's more difficult to hold on to him. I know it's cliche if they say that you should let go (because we all know it's not the easiest thing to do) but what you can do I guess, is to show him how much you care for him, and do everything you can to show it. So that when he does leave, you've given your all and there are no more regrets. I can't comfort you, nobody can, I can only share your sentiments. I'm sad too but honestly, there's nothing either of us can do about it. All we can do is to hope that the love we feel is true and that he loves us too. Just remember that holding on to him when he doesn't hold on to you, is like torturing yourself. In the end, you'd probably lose him (or he might come back) but it's all a mystery.

I'm in a similar situation, but even more complicated than yours, considering the fact that I'm married to the man. Distance is not an issue. You can be close to him, and yet, he strays and be with the other girl. That's what's happening to me. He's right here by my side every night, but he still goes after the girl. I have not lost hope yet, but I think you should start thinking about what you really want to do in your life, apart from this relationship. At this moment, I'm just concentrating on that. There are lots of things I want to do in life and if he can't stay focus on me and the family, it's time to move on... Even though, I'm still married to him and he tells me that he loves me, I still have to prepare myself in the eventuality that he chooses the girl over me. Once I have stabilised myself, being financially and emotionally independent of him, it might be time for some decisions to be made, whether on his part or mine. In the meantime, I'm hanging on. All the best! Pray hard for direction...

Well you gotta hang on there girl, if both of you love each other than hang in there. there's a problem with long distance but if you have faith in your love just stay with him cause when you guys finally met. You won't be apart :)

It will all depend on how much you love and trust him.No matter what the distance and even if there's a girl in between if he really loves you he will not do something foolish that will break your heart.It is hard but in situations like this LOVE,TRUST and UNDERSTANDING will make you see it through.

as your subject,just give up, in this situation, maybe you can imagine the future how to be a single in a peaceful heart, long time ago,i was undergo this problem, and failure in the end, i think i must be a negative person especially to deal with this problem, maybe i'm afraid of it now, in any case, best wishes for you, to get a happy day is important.

It's not only your decision but also your boyfriend's makes a big difference. He has to terminate the hanging state and make a choice between you and the other girl.Compared with true love, there is nothing difficult to resist! Distance influences, but isn't the determining factor.I understand it's difficult for you to forget the one you love, but you have to think about whether he deserves your faith and every effort to remain your relationship. I think the response from "Mike1976" is advisable. Good luck!

i have faced this problem ,,i do puzzle too.but i can restraint me to thinking of her! but at last,i failed,,i feel so sorry for what i have done!,but you should believe that if you and he doomed to get together, long distance is not a problem!! enjoy the day!!

i'm in a similar situation. i haven't given up yet. tis may sound so cheesy but all i can say is, be the girl he would want to come back to.