hows you feel after fight with your friend??
By yadav8797
@yadav8797 (1211)
India
April 23, 2009 12:44pm CST
hey friend, today i feel very bad after fighting with my friend. he is one of good friend of mine. i fight with him due to certain misunderstanding between us. after the fight i realized my mistake and i feel very bad.i realize that all scenario will happen due to both us mistakes.
should i say sorry to my friend for that or not??tell me what i have to ??
whats your opinion about?can this type of thing happen with you too.
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17 responses
@stanlee81 (381)
• China
24 Apr 09
Fighting with the friend,just a memerable experience when both of you get older and older.If you two guys are the real friends,the chaose could not interupt the friendship between you two.And most of us have such experience,we are humanbeings,and the conflict could not be evoided,and we are humanbeings,and any conflict could be homonirised by our own.
@wisan_jaya (127)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 09
I will try to explain things that have caused misunderstanding between me and my friend. And if both of us are just loss control and getting into a fight, i am sure i will the first to said sorry to my friend. I do not want to lose any friend. Figthing is just a figthing, but friend is everything to me.
@Archie0 (5652)
•
24 Apr 09
Today morning only i had a fight with one of my oldest friend.he kind of is very childish and takes everything in a joking manner, but not always everything is a joke. i have tried to explain him many many times even forgiven him many times, but today i couldnt control my anger and i just delted him from one of my social sites and even from messenger forever, i am regretting now, but i think he hardly cares for it. it is very genuine nothing stays forever not even your bestest friends, life is just a part to be walked alone, you come here alone and go the same way. today i am feeling so hurt. :-(
i think you should apologise to yur friend, make him assure that you wont repeat the mistake and make it sure you really dont repest it.
@maeras (107)
• United Arab Emirates
24 Apr 09
If you feel that you have a fault on what happened, it's definitely good to apologize even if he has done wrong too. It always bothers me if I'm not in good terms with my friends, or anybody for that matter. It's kinda heavy on the heart, if you know what I mean. Pops up on your mind every now and then. And pride wont do you no good either. It'll aggravate the situation. Better you both talk and settle it as soon as possible. Good luck!
@james_gordon (42)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
it really made me feel sad when i got a fight with anybody, especially with a friend. friends should always have a way to prevent a fight with each other, that's what friends are for, isn't it.
@orderfox (231)
• China
24 Apr 09
I think everyone will have the same problem with you. Because I have also encountered. Finally, after we open and honest echange of it. Because very good friedns in a frank exchange of understanding should be able to.
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
problem may occur in the relationship of the friendship for we could not predict the good bondings that it will last, some might have misunderstanding and both person have their pride, it will get to the point that it will be gathered with the help of some close friends and will give the clarification between the friendship.
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
Hi there!
Misunderstandings and fights happens to everyone. It's just normal in any relationship or situation. People have different opinions and sometimes this causes misunderstandings when they don't agree with other people.
If you really feel bad about what happened, you can say sorry to your friend. It's not bad if you make the first move or who is wrong or right. What's important is patching things up.
Ciao!
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
24 Apr 09
Friendship is very precious.Good friends are worth more than a treasure.We often quarrel or argue or fight with friends.This is something which we all do,it is normal but the thing is we should also know how to act maturely.If you feel that it was your mistake then you should not waste one second but apologise to him.Saying "Sorry" to your friend won't make you small but it will only build more trust and understanding in your friendship.Just go ahead and tell him you are sorry.
@madhu_yl (116)
• India
24 Apr 09
Hi yadav8797,
I think this is very common to every one.first you say sorry to your friend,because this small misunderstandings create a big problems and also spoil your friendship.you try to understand your friend and don't do again this.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
i never experience a fight with a friend yet. Should it happened am sure I'll be crying a lot, since I value friends so much. If you think you committed mistakes it's alright to say sorry. Much better if you talk and make up with each other. For sure she would love to talk and settle whatever misunderstanding happened between you. Friends are like relatives anyway. We're hurt in losing them too.
@sharlionse (739)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
don't feel so bad because friends normally fight. It is a test of friendship, how well you know each other and how far you can be with a friend. But the nicest thing that could happen is for you both to reconcile immediately, don't ever let a misunderstanding last long. Saying sorry id always the right thing to do after a fight. So cheer up friend!
@hmkoct5 (2065)
• United States
23 Apr 09
If you made a mistake, I would definitely apologize to your friend. Everybody has arguments with people they care about. The best thing to do is tell the person that you have been thinking about what happened and you realized that you made a mistake. Hopefully, the person you are speaking to will be appreciative that you are admitting a mistake and he/she will be willing to discuss what happened with you in a calm, rational manner. I hope it works out for you!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
24 Apr 09
I don't think there are any friends out there that haven't argued at one time or another. If you talk to him and explain to him how you feel just like you did for us here he will surely understand.
Apologise to him for your part in the fight and let him know you value the friendship.
I used to live with my best friend and although we got along really well we had the odd tiff every now and again.
We used to resolve things by sitting down and having a chat about it; it was somewhat easier because we are both women and better equipped to communicate.
@spirite68 (185)
• France
23 Apr 09
I think you must say sorry to your friend and explain to him why you fight!!!