When did ur parents first find out u were no longer their sweet little Virgin??
By Ozarkgirl
@Ozarkgirl (774)
United States
April 23, 2009 3:53pm CST
Unfortuantely my virginity was taken from me when I was raped at age 14 so my parents knew immediately. Now I am 35 with two boys of my own ages 18 and 20 (my 20 yr. old was the result of the rape at age 14 I choose to keep my child)and my boys and I have a great relationship which made them feel free to let me know the next day when they lost their virginity. I was a little uncomfortable knowing this, and when they were not around I cried because I felt like they were no longer my little boys. Reality had hit....they were young men. So how about you, when did your parents first find out your were no longer a virgin, and if you have kids what about you, do you know if they are or are not????
2 responses
@captainmorgan (773)
• Canada
23 Apr 09
I lost my virginity when I was 14...my mom found out about it without me telling her. I'm now 17. I'm sorry to hear that you had to lose your virginity that way, it would be rough. I was raped about a month ago and I couldn't imagine how bad it would have been if that were my virginity.
@Ozarkgirl (774)
• United States
23 Apr 09
I am so sorry to hear that. I hope that you have been able to start the heeling process. If you need someone to talk to privately let me know. I worked as an advocate for abused/raped women and children for many years. Thank you and thank you for sharing....
@captainmorgan (773)
• Canada
23 Apr 09
I'm not entirely sure if I have started the healing process, I'm sort of hung up on the whole situation. I'll add you as a friend, and if I feel the need to talk about it, I'll send you a message. Thanks very much.
@psychotaz206 (2086)
• United States
23 Apr 09
i was 16 and i told my mom the morning after but she really didnt believe me because i use to beat up all the guys that would ever try because i was sexually abused when i was 9 the only reason the guy didnt rape me was my mom was home and my 2 year old brother was in the room plus i punched the guy in his d*ck it happened to be my moms boyfriend at the time and when i told my mom what he did she didnt believe me but anyways when i did lose my virginity i was passed out on the sofa from being drunk i didnt know what happened till i woke up the superbowel that the cowboys beat the steelers. i still wish it would not of happened that way but it did and i can't change that
