guidence needed please

you know its better to accept the reality,how old are you

I really do not find anything wrong with what you did. I guess its just the girl's way of knowing how interested are you in her. That is why she decided to back off to see if you would pursue her or not. Obviously you did not that is why maybe she got confused. But I guess girls are like that, you shouldn't be discourage if you're really interested in her.

What you are dealing with her almost every man in history has had a problem with. What do women want? It is very difficult to know that...you are not alone. Of course what you have said here indicates to me that the only thing you really know about her intentions is by inference. She never really told you she was not interested anymore right. Not even in an indirect way. So you have the feeling she is not because she would not go out with you when you thought she had no reason she could not. Now go back to where everything changed. You said something about 'all night' but was not clear on that. If you were intimate with her then that is where things change. Sometimes for the good, sometimes not so good. All depends upon how she looks at it. This could be true even if you just talked all night and told each other personal things. Regardless of the reason it sounds like she thought you were getting way to serious and she wasn't quite ready for that. Most women will not tell you to your face something they think may hurt you so they work around that. Even though she may be still interested in you she needed to slow it down. You took that to the extreme and put it to a complete stop. Only one way to answer your question. You must go to her and ask. Only one questions need be ask and answered to both your satisfaction. "So where are we?" You get an answer to that question and you will know just where you stand.

I am sort of the same way i can express my feeling to people on the internet better than i can to my family and boyfriend. It seems to be a lot easier for me. Also talking on the phone i can't really do either and it bugs me and i wish i could just tell someone what i am feeling, but texting to me is so much easier and i can tell my boyfriend through a text what i want or need better then i can through talking on the phone and he hates that but oh well hes with me and loves me so oh well. I am really glad to see i am not the only person like this and i am sure not you and me are the only ones who are like this either. It's hard to express my feelings toward someone and am glad i am able to text people.