Will you still continue care for your parents, even after getting married?
By neelianoscet
@neelianoscet (9615)
Philippines
April 23, 2009 9:45pm CST
As a daughter of loving a parents, I will still continue to give them my full support, attention, caring and whatever help they want from me. I think it is my responsibility not to disregards our parents as they grow old and suffers from alzeheimer and dementia. Will you still do the same? Remember all of us will experience the same stages when our time comes, and old ages grippled us, and it is our way to get back to them by showing gratitude, it may depend also if the guy you're going to married are kind enough to allow you.Will you still do the same things, as to take in mind, that it is a rewarding someday, that we become parents and find out that our daughter cherish us and after for our health and well beings.
Will still care for us patiently and will not dump as as what others daughters have done to their parents.
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3 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
hi neelia,
yes i will not stop loving, caring & supporting my parents...as long as i am alive i think i will always be here for them, trying to help & support them to the best that i can...
i think being their daughter has no expiration & will not end on the day of my marriage...
i recognize all their sacrifices for me, all the things that they have done for me...
i owe them my life & everything & i think that even my life is not enough to repay them...
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@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
hi ckyera,
Yeah, even though parents become feeble, old and suffer from dementia. Children need to be patience to take good care of them as the way of returning the gratitude for their sacrifices to take care of their children and in return should pay them through giving them lots of care and attention towards throughout their remaining time.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
yeah, i do agree and we could show them how much we care for them especially during their older years as they become weak with their bodies and becomes absent minded most of the times some elderly even forget their names or even the names of their children. Those precious memories are lost thus even when you get married those attention should never stop and still continue to care for them even though in some instances being married creates distances as you have another person to care most of the times. Forgetting to care is a worst to do and thus need to show it no matter how busy you are. have a nice day!
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
24 Apr 09
Yes, I will always be there for my family, if my mom needs me I will help her, if she gets sick and needs a place to stay, can no longer care for herself then she can stay with me and I will care for her. It is the least I can do, after all she has done for me.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
Almost or at least one or more of the family members will still continue caring for their parents only signifies our love and it is visible in every aspects of our daily living. Thus, whatever things we done for them in return begets good karma, hoping every children, daughters and sons will also reciprocate the same deeds.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
hi flower,
Wow, your parent is so lucky to have you and i do wish the same things. But for now as long as i am available i would help my parents with the best of my ability and care for them as long as i live. it is one way to payback for the sacrifices which they give to their children and it is only right to serve them for the rest of their days. thanks.