What is your biggest regret?
By xixi_abby
@xixi_abby (211)
Indonesia
April 23, 2009 10:57pm CST
Hi, friends..my dad was died 5 years ago. if i remind about him it still have some feel regret in my heart. it will make me feel it's not fair for me. My biggest regret is i'm too shy to say i love him and show my love for him. I never live with him because he married again. so i didn't have time with him. Until now the thing that i most want to do is "can HUG him again and sit on his lap again". Love your Dad, friend while he still beside you.
so, what is your biggest regret? feel free to share. have a nice day,.
8 responses
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
I am also very far from my parents because they live in the province and I am working and permanently living now in the city which is 9 hour drive from my province. But I always get in touch to them and asking how are they. I always included them in my prayers that they should be healthy and free from troubles all the time and so with my siblings.
But my greatest regret ever is not be able to take a Film making course in college, right now I still dream to take up a Masters in Film making arts but cannot do it at this point in time because of financial reason. I always wanted to become a Screen writer.
@xixi_abby (211)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 09
Hi Jlamela. however you must try to get your dream. always have ways for people who wants to try and hard worker. keep spirit dear. you can do it. thank for your sharing. HAve a nice day :D
@isakuiki (95)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 09
Hi xixi_abby
the biggest regret in my life was when I can't finish study at college on time. if I graduate on time, then I will have enough time to get my dream job and built my career,married and have children . I am working on it till now, I mean about built my career. but now I am a married man, have a daughter and I think I must spend time with her even just a little.I don't want she loss a father figure just because I am to busy chase my career.
@xixi_abby (211)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 09
Hi Isakuiki, i'm proud of you. eventhough i didn't finish your study on time. but you can get your career, family and beautiful daughter, right? you're a great father. i give you 2 thumkins..Have a nice day :D
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 09
Like you my biggest regret is not having to say the word 'I love you' to my father. He passed away 3 years ago. He has been too strict in his upbringing of his children that has put a barrier in us to be ever close to him. In his last years of his life he seems to have mellowed down a lot but that fear of him has strongly embedded in me for so long which has prevented me from getting closer to him until his last breath. He has been a fearful father figure to me but his disciplinarian style has somehow shape up my life to what I am today which I am proud of. But the regrets that I have not understood him well is still eating up my flesh and bones and now I can only pray that his soul rest in peace.
@xixi_abby (211)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 09
Hi Zandi, thank for your sharing here. i really miss my father. i hope we can be more stronger and stronger and stronger hehehe..thank you friend.
have a nice day
@wisan_jaya (127)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 09
This could be my biggest regret :
- 4 or 5 years ago, when i have to pick up my girlfriend in plaza, I was waiting for her in parking places, and when she had saw me there i was angry with her. I was really sorry for that. I was in a great hurry. If i am not wrong, After going to have lunch with somebody that are celebrating their winning in karaoke competition, i still have to pick her up, brinh her home, and i should get to work again. I am really sorry for that.
- i can really enjoy in my home since i have work. I feel far from my family. I am seldom talk to them. I am feel sorry to all the members of my family for my behavior
@xixi_abby (211)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 09
hi there. thank for your honest. i sure that you're lovely girlfriend already forgive you and she loves you so much. you're lucky got her who really patience and understand you and about your family try to close with them before late. keep trying dear. you can do it. :D i always behide you.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
24 Apr 09
Hi Xixi,
I am sorry about your dad. I am lucky that my mom and my dad still alive. I work in another city which is away from home. I might see them once in 2 or 3 months. I did talk to them, but i never say i love you to them. It just so hard to say i love you to them, and i don't want to scare them. i will just use my action to show my care to them, i know it's not enough, but it take times.
@xixi_abby (211)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 09
Hi vivian. yeah, i think because of our culture too. if we say "i love you" to our parent may be can scared them huahahaha..but now i try to start it with my mom. in some occasion i really want to say it i will call her and say "mom,I love you". yeah, i know nothing can i do now for him but the thing that's make me so sad that i can see my father for the last time. that time i still at school and my grandmom didn't tell me until i go home T,T.
yeah i hope too. you can be a good mom later. thank for your sharing and support, friend. thank you and have a nice day :D
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
my biggest regret was that i didnt finished my college degree. i was a graduating student when i dropped out of school.
i had been a working student then, got involved and was active at church at that time.
it was stupid of me. all those years studying hard for nothing, so really stupid. my biggest mistake of all.
@xixi_abby (211)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 09
HI jayrene. i'm feel sorry with you're study. but without study we can prove to the world that we can be successful person right? Gud Luck dear.
thank for your sharing here thank you. have a nice day :D
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
24 Apr 09
Oh,i forgot to tell you my biggest regret. I think even you regret about something, it already happened, there is nothing you can change, so you need to accept it and learn from it. My biggest regret is that i should have listen to my heart rather to accpet a relationship that i don't want. It's a long story and things have been over now, but the hurt in the heart is still there. I wish i never done that. I won't do it in the furture to my kids.