So theres this guy.....

Canada
April 24, 2009 6:34am CST
.....and I have been somewhat seeing him for just about a year now. We have never talked about our relationship at all and what "we are" as far as being a couple goes. When im with him everything is great, we have so much fun together and he makes sure I am happy. But when he leaves, I dont hear from him for days at a time, and then he will just randomly call me and want to hangout. The last time I got to see him was halloween of 08' and then a couple days later he got arrested and had to go to jail. He just got out a week ago and keeps calling me and telling me that I was one of the first people he wanted to see, but everytime we make plans to see eachother, one of his "bros" goes over and I get ditched. I really like him alot, but I dont know what to do anymore and need some advice..... anyone got any advice?
2 people like this
3 responses
yspring
@yspring (272)
• China
24 Apr 09
real hard to do this!!you can find somefriend that have friend who work in the jail to help you! !,good to you !wish you two will get together some day!
1 person likes this
thanusha85
@thanusha85 (532)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 09
This seems to sound like a good idea but why not you just try telling him you dont like being ditched on every plan you have with him. He should be able to understand. Regards Thanusha
yspring
@yspring (272)
• China
25 Apr 09
thank you my good friend,lol!you idea should be a better one!
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
i think he still needs to prioritize if he will be spending his time with you or not. i just think you do need to let him know you won't allow him to always ditch you because it is like telling you straight up you are not as important as his friends.
1 person likes this
princesscheech
@princesscheech (61)
• Canada
24 Apr 09
Any other time I would not be in this situation because I do not let guys treat me like that, but in this case he is different. I have never met anyone like him, and I want to put my foot down and tell him whats up but I dont want to end up loosing him.
1 person likes this
anjel016
@anjel016 (329)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
If I were you, I'll be really suspicious about it. Yes, you like him but if he is doing something wrong you should stop him or rather go away from him. If he will bring you no good, then why him? There are lots of men available out there. Don't let your heart take over your decisions, use your mind as well. Goodluck!