Would you take a former lover back???

Philippines
April 24, 2009 7:00am CST
it depends. First, if i still have feelings for him. second, if he compromises our past misunderstandings. I would say, it depends on the reason of the breakup. if the reason was not beacause of cheating, then probably, i would take him back if i still have feelings for him, then that would be a factr. if he seems sincere and if we both compromise then yes, I would take him back. xoxo:)
6 responses
@xliRSA (13)
• South Africa
25 Apr 09
Personally I would not take back a former lover. If it did not work the first time, I don't see how it can work the second time. Unless of course you are BOTH willing to WORK very hard on the relationship and have sorted out why you have broken up in the first place. But not for me, thank you!
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
i think i won't be taking a former lover back since i consider my past breakups really bad and it'll be really hard to take one of those from my past back. but i can never really say never. the reason from my latest breakup was cheating and i'm one of those who can't tolerate that. i guess there's just no hope for me and that guy getting back together.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
no. not anymore. i am happily loving someone. i am very happy with him and feels loved. :D i will no longer return to my past as i have decided to live in my present life.
@megaplaza (1441)
• Nigeria
24 Apr 09
it depends on alot of things and factors, but it can happen, besides it happens with ppl everyday.
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
no. once i broke up with him... that's it. there's no getting back. i'm the type who would stay in a relationship even during the roughest of times, i would try to understand, i would try to forgive. except for cheating and emotional stress, there wouldn't be any cause for the break-up.
• India
24 Apr 09
Well like u said it depends.... 1) The reason v parted ways the first time around!!! 2) Do i still have feelings for him. 3) DO I still respect him. 4) If the reason for our break-up the first time around was incompatibility then is he ready to work it out this time around. The scenarios in which I definitely wont take him back are.... 1) If he isnt ready to work on the relationship. 2) If i have lost respect for him. 3) If i have no more feeling left for him. 4) If i know for sure that come what may this guy is never ever gonna change. etc etc etc....