How can I get rid of this problem? Friends help & advise me.
By TitoRoyal
@TitoRoyal (73)
India
April 24, 2009 9:49am CST
hello Friends,Life is going on so my age is increasing but lifetime is decreasing. Its natural but this type thinking comes to my mind now and then.
Lets come to my main points- few months before I have completed my formal education and also finished a professional IT course. Now I am being faced few interviews for my job. But there is a problem . If I face any interview, the interviewers ask me various questions, I fall in hesitation, when I try to answer any question I do stammering though I have no stammering. Some times I forget the answers that I know. Friends advise me to become in the interview period and I also try but fail. I have decided to go to psychiatrist. Is it right for me?Friends advise and help me what shall I do? Is there any experience about this? Please inform me about my doings.
3 responses
@sona22 (1430)
• India
27 Apr 09
As I think you are just suuffering from lack of condidence. Your will power any how decreased. Just be faithful to yourself. I can do it: this type of thinking will incease your self confidence. Have you hread the anme of SWAMI VIVEKANANDA? He told us: Awake! ARise! ANd stop not till the goal is reached. I am aware that uttering a word and act according is another. So confidence is necessary. I shall suggest you two:
1) Start Meditation: this will improve your self confidence.
2) Visit a Psychologist not a psychiatrist. Counselling with Psychologist is very helpful to overcome this type of situation. I don't now where are you from? If from Kolkata, I can give you a name of good Psychologist. We have taken his advice for my daughter and it was very helpful.
I also suggest you to start to think that the interviewer are your friend and they have no intention to misguide you. They are very sympathetic. Be cheerful and I am sure you will be succeed in life.
@TitoRoyal (73)
• India
6 May 09
Perhaps you are right. For the lack of confidence it may occur. I like most the doctrine of Swami Vivekanada. But I didn't understand that why have you advised me to go the Psychologist instead of Psychiatrist? I don't know counseling is enough or not for me.A lot of thanks from me for your good advice. Hope you will advise me next too. Me think that meditation will be suitable for me.
@sona22 (1430)
• India
6 May 09
I suggest you for meditation as I personally believe that it improves our confidence. Lack of confidence is the outcome of many factors. Meditation will improve your inner strength. Secondly, I suggest you to visit a psychologist instead of a psychiatrist. A psychiatrist normally prescribe medicine but no medicine can improve our confidence. A psychologist will talk to you. He will try to help you to overcome the situation by vocal but logical talk.
Thanks and wish you a happy and prosperous life.
@itsmevinoda (89)
• India
24 Apr 09
hi friend now many of us thinking like tha tonly...the reason why ur thinking like that means........ur thinking that "MAY BE i am not fit for the job.my frds are facing interviews good i can compete them or not "......all questions are going into ur mind while ur going for the interview.if this is the problem think only one word .........i am the best in the world...no one can compete me....thinking positively is good ..some are saying that over confidene is not good but in some cases overconfidence help u a lot...for the next inteview u try in this way.surely u will get success all the best friend...
@harshsingrodia (22)
• India
24 Apr 09
the only think i would like to advise you is to have faith in yourself think that u dont want that job the people taking ur interview needs u and this will improve ur confidence and never hesitate to say anything life gives u enough chance to explore urself just be bindaas i hope my suggestion helped u
