relationship help
By crystal1106
@crystal1106 (4)
United States
April 24, 2009 5:09pm CST
i dont even know where to start lol..i was in a relationship for 5 years and i got out of it a few months ago and im ready to start dating again and have been for a while but the thing is i cannot keep a guy around and im not sure why lol im a pretty cool laid back person and im told im attractive all the time..ok so heres my problem this guy and i started talking not to long ago and im not sure if hes interested in me or not and i dont want to be my normal upfront to the point self because im scared that im gonna push him away like i seem to do all the time lol but i do want to know if hes interested so i can tell him that i am.
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3 responses
@buildagreatsite (106)
• United States
25 Apr 09
Hi crystal1106, It's always best to be yourself so the other person can get to know the real you. Take it slowly and get to know him. Get to know each other. Make sure that you are compatible. You might not even like him after you get to know him, this is why you need to go slow. And do not talk about your previous relationship unless he asks and only answer his questions. Most guys don't like to hear about that stuff.
Good luck!
@dmrone (746)
• United States
24 Apr 09
Just be yourself. It is the best advice anyone can give you. If he is interested in you, then he is interested in the real you.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
24 Apr 09
Hi, I can give you an advice but I can't help you with relationship cuz I fail one and I dont want to restart it again. first thing, please dont let him know that you are interest in him yet, cuz it danger. Why? he will know that you are in love with him and he can control on your feeling anytime and anyhow. second, find out about him first, get to know more and more. Third, if you seem enough, you decide if he is the right man for you or not. Good luck
