What do you do when things wont work well sometimes?
By gayathrigs
@gayathrigs (871)
India
April 24, 2009 5:51pm CST
why do mistakes happen with us while at work or in any situation sometimes, and sometimes, its like, either our luck is not good or its a bad day or xyz, any thing doesn't seem to go well. why like that? how to cope up with such situations? Do you come across such situations where you feel that 'what's wrong with me these days? or what's happening with me these days? I put in all the efforts and am so conscious about every thing am doing, but why again me? why does it not happen with others? Is God really listening to my prayers? and so on .....? I find such situations very tough to pass through and really feel very sad, what should I do to maintain my cool? Do you think God sometimes tests us too much? I want to know from your experiences friends as to what you do when things go wrong and how do you try to cope up with tough situations, sometimes, when situations are like, you do a very small mistake and your boss calls you and asks for an explanation? This kind of incidents really irritate me a lot and my mood is totally spoiled that day. I can't be happy or not even a normal person for the entire day. I work so hard not to make even a single error, but then, mistakes do happen sometimes. Please help me!
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4 responses
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
I live on this rule and it works for me 'everything will end up good, if it is not good yet, then it is simply not yet the end'.
VeRy simple thought but really works for me so everytime things seem to be crazy and didnt turn out good i jusy remmber the thought and move on and try to acquire lessons from it..
Hope that lil thought helps you as it helping me everytime..
@gayathrigs (871)
• India
25 Apr 09
yes, I also need to stick to this kind of positive thought, else my brain is filled with negative thought every time a mistake happens, I need to stay calm and composed even then. thanks for your response.
@acekala (163)
• United States
25 Apr 09
Remeber Todays a Great day to have a great day. Your prays will be answered, However you have to claim the victory over the bad influnces in your life. Try praying this. Lord I trust you to handle all the bad in my life so I can be what you will me to be. I know Lord you want me to be successful so I'm going to be I just need to be patient and it will come in your time and not mine. You try that and see what kinda of results you get. Don't let your boss drag you down or anything else for that matter. When yopur boss and others see they cant effect you with there negativity you will see it stop. Besides as acreature of God your to good to allow the devil to drag you down. Good luck although since you have God on your side you wont need it. :)
@gayathrigs (871)
• India
25 Apr 09
Hey, thanks a lot dear, I do get many many negative thoughts whenever a small mistake happens you know, this is because my boss calls and asks for explanation, I really feel very guilty about it, and I can't concentrate on anything. Performance is not appreciated but feedback is given most of the time, which makes me feel very very sad. I don't know whats wrong with me dear these days, it wasn't the same earlier, not even before last two months. something bad is happening frequently, I do perform very well, but they ask for more. what to do? I am just praying god because he is the only one i trust the most in this world. I hope every thing happens good. thanks a lot for your response.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
26 Apr 09
Well, with the Economy being the way it is especially here in the US right now, I am sure there are many who are asking these questions, and wondering if there is something they could have done better to prevent some of the things happening in their life. They might even feel like a Failure as well. It can often lead to other things as well.
The main thing is when you start feeling these things, is what are you doing about them, and where do you go from here. Personally I would think this should be a Great way to get more people to think about their future and what is in store for them from there, and to learn to Trust God more seeking him in Prayer and Faith pushing forward for Great things to come from all of this as well.
@suzzy3 (8341)
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26 Apr 09
Sometimes things go wrong and I accept it and laugh it off,clear up the mess ect,then get on with life.Othertimes I let rip and lose my temper depends on what time of the month it is, or the importance of what I am trying to achieve.I do hope god has his ear plugs in some times.xx
