what should single girl do to enjoy life?

China
April 24, 2009 7:36pm CST
I felt a bit lonely this moening when I wake up.Since broke up with a boy in college life,I've been alone for more than year.My female friends hurried me to find a boyfriend.But i just don't wanna to be a positive girl find a love.However i still wanna my life would be more colorful rather than pain all the time. I wanna to know how's the other single girls' life like.
3 responses
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
well first of all you should accept the reality that you are single, unhooked and no commitments right now. and then do the things that are with boundaries or acceptable to you. go into new hobbies,travel or anything you want to do to change the scenery of your life. before i got married i was very happy with my life as single..i savored every moment of it..well with some flirting to ease the time, but majority of it is i dont waste my time mopping around the things my friends want me to do like get a new boyfriend (i dont need a boyfriend to be happy) it will come on its right time. well i do redocorating at my place every week, and then if i have cash i go shopping for inexpensive things but useful, i go visit some long time friends i havent seen, play video games with the kids i dont know in the mall,eat icecream while taking a stroll in the park and the list goes on... its nice to reminisce those days when you dont have a husband to check you out every hour. lol
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@wendywhy (64)
• United States
27 May 09
It is very hard to break up with someone and be alone. There are some really great positives, too though. When I was single I examined my life and what I wanted. I got married before I really pursued my dreams but at least I had some time to myself. Just remember that at whatever stage your life is in you can choose to be happy. If you are single or married you will have times when you are lonely. Reaching out to others (especially mylotters (0:) will help.
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
well, I think going-out sometimes is better, fighting against loneliness is not easy. Make yourself busy by thinking up new things.