which way will you choose to deliver baby / myLot

China

April 24, 2009 10:13pm CST

Now more and more people choose to deliver baby by surgery.I prefer to do it naturally.But it is really paiful especially you exactly at that time.I almost can't stand it.Then I asked doctor to do a surgery,but the doctor told me it's the time.Half an hour late ,i saw my new born. Which way will you choose?

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7 responses

berrys

@berrys (864)

• Singapore

25 Apr 09

as you said more people don't want to feel pain so my first choice would always be by cesarean but i have a twin sister and the doctor told my mum if she wanted a cesarean with twins she would have to be awake as they cut her open which is scary. but if i was to give birth naturally i would want quintuplets only because the more there are the smaller they are so it should be easier to give birth i guess. cheers love.

anniecheung216

@anniecheung216 (168)

• China

26 Apr 09

If you get quintuplets,it will last longer.And the pain will keep longer. The pregenant will be hard time,you almost can not walk to anyplace after 6month

lulumartin

@lulumartin (963)

• Germany

26 Apr 09

I have read from the book, it says actually having a small size baby will not give us easy labour but a long and difficult one. It's not a matter of size.

claudiamac

@claudiamac (154)

• United States

26 Apr 09

yes i know that too, becaiuse the baby is not strong enough to come out and its straining on you and her. My aunt told me pray for a strong baby so she helps you while you push, because if the baby cannot do her part then you'll end up witn a c section, and i know is good because y ou dont feel pain in the moment but what about after? naturally hurts a the end, (if you get the epidural) and it all depends, no delivery or pregnancy is the same...

Jae2619

@Jae2619 (1483)

• United States

4 May 09

I've had both, and if given the choice, natural would be my choice. My first baby was born natural, with no problems other than he was one day over due and needed a little bit of help starting my labor, and some issues with my pre-clampsia. My little girl on the other hand, wanted to come into the world at 5 months and was put on medication to stop labor and had to take it easy for a while. She still decided that she wanted to be born so at 8 months she started my labor to where it couldn't be stopped, and after 31 hours of labor she decided she changed her mind and got tired and put her hands up over her head and got stuck, so I had to be rushed to the OR for an emergancy c-section. I was put completely out so I didn't get to see her for 7 hours after she was born, and recovery really sucked.

@anniecheung216 (168)

• China

6 May 09

i do think we need baby's coperation during the whole time. i always told my little one to be cooperated when i was pregnant.she did that . she is a good girl. i am proud of her.

maximax8

@maximax8 (31046)

• United Kingdom

26 Apr 09

I choose a home birth that is as natural and as possible. I had my first son born at home using my water pool and gas and air for the pain. My labor lasted 8 hours. I had my second son at home without needing any pain relief. My labor that time lasted just two and a half hours. I am hoping for a similar birth with my daughter in two months time.

3SnuggleBunnies

@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)

• United States

25 Apr 09

I delivered 2 of mine the easier way.... naturally with a good epidural! My 3rd was a c-sect... I don't not recomment it! Unless you have a great tolerance for pain & have someone to help you while you recover after the hospital forget it!! That's one of many reasons I will not be having any more kids, I would rather walk infront of a train than do that again. It even gave me PPD! If my son wasn't breach I would of been able to have him as I had his sisters but he has to be a stinker.

lulumartin

@lulumartin (963)

• Germany

26 Apr 09

Hi, anniecheung. You are right, there are more and more people having c-section now due to the fear of pain. But in fact, i am more afraid of the pain that i would have after the c-section. I have been told that pain from c-section is much more than normal delivery. If there is no special condition, i will not choose to have c-section, because surgery has some sort of risks. Besides, from my point of view, the mother went through the normal delivery will feel bonding with the baby immediately. I have had natural birth two months ago, my labour was not that bad, in fact, it was quite easy and wonderful for me, it was just like a dream, everything went very fast, finally the baby was put on my tummy. Guess what happened? He peed suddenly towards the doctor! Hahaha... Well, if i would have pregnant again, i will again choose to have natural birth, since i have been through an easy delivery. Happy mylotting and have a nice day!