smokers

Canada
April 25, 2009 8:39am CST
My roommate smokes and after a year of a few battles here and there she finally goes outside to smoke. I am unfortunately allergic to ciggarrette smoke and can not even be around someone who has had a smoke. She is allergic to perfumes and has the same problem. But she feels that she should be able to smoke in the apartment as she pays half the rent. I am the one who ends up paying the bills and then waiting for her to pay back her half. I never wear perfume because of her allergy. I know a few smokers and not a one of them smoke in their house, they all go outside to smoke. Now it is not her age cause they people I know are all around her age but they feel that their house stinks and therefore wont smoke in it. So our compromise is I close my bedroom door and put a towel under it when I go home for the weekends and she smokes in the house. I have washed walls and such but still don't understand why she has to smoke in the house. I wish she would quit as it is really expensive and she is always complaining she is broke but it is her life and as long as she doesn't smoke when I am around it is her problem. Does anyone else have this problem and how do you go about convincing someone to smoke outside all the time. I hate coming home here to a house I know has been smoked in and when I go away for a week I have to febreeze everything before I can sit in my own home. Any thoughts or sugggestions? I dont want to be on her back to quit, just quit smoking in the house.
1 response
27 Apr 09
Hi, it is sad story for you. Because in my country, no one is allow to smoke inside any premises. It is illegal to do that. Anyway, I don't think you should continue to compromise as you also have the right in the house as you are the tenant of it. Maybe you might consider to ask her to smoke either in the toilet or in her own room and not in those shared places such as the living room, kitchen etc.