Broken Home who is more likely to be affected?

My parents divorced when i was young, too young to decide who i would be with (I was 5yrs at the time). My mother took me and refused me to let me see my dad. I grew up slightly resentful for that. When I turned 16 i sought out my dad. I found him, and began bonding with him. Every Thursday night we would go to dinner when I went to work. My mother son found out, and was very upset. That was when I explained to both of my parents that I refused to choose between them, that if they truly loved and respected me they would let me spend time with both of them. I hope you find peace.