anyone tired what your husband behave?
@makeupartisteileen (653)
Singapore
5 responses
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
26 Apr 09
Well, just extend your patience and add more understanding. There is no perfect relationship. Everyone is having that misunderstanding often as a part of being together. For me? I just accept whatever his attitude because there is no way to change him. I have to change my attitude first and maybe he will do the same..
@lumenmom (1986)
• United States
26 Apr 09
I am more than tired of how my husband behaves. Right now we are seperated and he wants us to get back togther but I am not ready for that since I don't believe he is ready to do the right thing. He may do well for a while but as soon as I start to trust him, he goes back to the people that influence him to start using again and then he leaves us for sometimes months at a time. It will be hard for me to explain to my daughter why daddy cannot live with us but I can't keep starting over all the time. It is very hard to live life like that. Right now I am trying to get me and my daughter on our feet and he will have to get himself together before he can think of coming to live with us again.
@makeupartisteileen (653)
• Singapore
28 Apr 09
guys are always like that . never trust them. you can together with him but you should not trust him. i don't believe they will change , i only believe he will hind behind you.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
26 Apr 09
you'd have to try to increase your patience more and understand him more.. this is what you wanted, you loved the person and you have got to accept that he is what he is showing you and that is the most possible thing you have loved in him in the first place.
@kassdaw (591)
• United States
25 Apr 09
I made it simple when my husband wasn't behaving as I thought he should. I kicked him out. He couldn't understand that once you have a family you can't spend every night partying like your 18. I tried talking to him about it and I went through all the "right" steps to try and fix our marriage but thing got through to him. He said I was being unreasonable and that I didn't know what I was talking about. He worked 4 days a week, 10 hours a day and made good money. I stayed at home with our son who was 1 year old at the time. I did do my share of work, between raising our son, taking care of the house and my freelance writing jobs I would become exhausted and want him to watch the baby for a bit. This was usually so I could get shopping with my sister or just take a nap. And he was always too busy, he was either heading to party or going drinking with friends.
Overall, Divorce is the greatest thing in the world for me. Now I am in a great relationship, I get to work, go shopping, take a two hour bath in the middle of the day and I know my son is being taken care of.
@makeupartisteileen (653)
• Singapore
25 Apr 09
ya this is what a same feel as mine , my husband won't go clubbing this is only thing i happy with him, but he really really really lazy........................ we got enough money to spend every day .and he only work 1week for a month which not everyone can get such a good job . so he got 3 week break a month . and is only a few hour job a day. he was so lazy and only think about sleep..... he never even try to improve his self. yes i believe a person need 10hour sleep a day . but he can sleep 18hour if no one wake him up. he can even go shopping with me and giving me a tired face. all the house work i do , all his mess i clear. i talk to him he will never listen . so now i being myself , i won't care what even .what he want to do just go ahead.the more i said the more argument we got. and make me very tired.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
26 Apr 09
my husband before was a drunkard. his time was almost spend by his friends having a drinking sessions. i got tired of this behavior that i always told him all about this. i just keep quiet but then there came a time that he got sick because of this behavior, he got admitted to the hospital, and so then on he stopped drinking.
