increase listening skills

don't do it, because it will make you dizzy.

I believe the key is to be a good listener first. You need to listen to them and they will respond in kind. My mother always said this "People don't know how much you know until they know how much you care" What is the best way to show some one you are caring it is to listen and respond back to them in kind. Not only listen the way you want others to listen to you but also think about that persons personality and think if I were them how would I want some one to listen to me. Find out what listening means to them then display that and tell them what it looks like for you.

Hi, no I have not experimented on that but I believe that one can easily improve on the listening skills. This is an art and surely it requires concentration. and i do not think that to build concentration one really needs some outer aids. What one is supposed to do is to self motivate.