Ever Cheated on someone?

WOW! This should be 2 different posts! lol Okay. I was the cheater, one time. At the time, I knew I wanted to do it.... but as soon as I saw his face when I told him... I knew I shouldn't have. My boyfriend and I had been together almost 2 1/2 years that I cheated on... but it should have ended 2 years prior. I really did/do love Michael. I'd never want to see him hurting and I kick myself in the butt on a regular basis for doing that. That screwed up my chances of even being able to be friends with him. We just wanted different things out of life... we had tried breaking up MORE THAN a few times... but everytime one of us would end up crying and calling the other person and we'd get back together. Break ups are hard and neither one of us was ready for the pain... until I bit the bullet and slept with another man. Now - I have been cheated on as well. Michael, the above mentioned, cheated on me at one point. He told me he was staying home one night that he was tired and instead turned around and went out with his ex girlfriend and his cousin. I ONLY found out b/c the next morning he called me and told me that someone stole his jeep. He had a very recognizable jeep for the small town he lived in so I knew someone had to be screwing with him... so I called the cell phone and checked the voicemails and heard"*sniff sniff* michael, i'm so sorry for leaving you there last night. I just... I just don't know what got into me...." OOOOH my blood was boiling!And then more recently I was dating a guy who I suppose was still emotionally and sexually attached to his "ex wife" (they were seperated). I had a HUGE suspision b/c of stupid crap that was written on the wonderful world of myspace. Then one friday night we had a HUGE fight and his "ex wife" came and picked him up and drove him up to work, he got himself (and i believe it was only himself) a hotel room instead of coming home... but then when he did come back in the area he went to her house before he came over. So he ran his mouth about me yelling at him 2 nights prior and then he took a nap. I got on and checked his email and there was an email from the "ex wife" stating "you need to decide if you want her or me... and thanks for the fun little quicky inthe bathroom, I really needed it" and went on to say something about when he had her bent over. Needless to say... he's lucky he's still alive after I read tht one!!!

No, I have never cheated on anyone when I was dating and have never cheated on my husband nor has he cheated on me. So I guess I am lucky on that account. I have had friends that have had their boyfriends and husbands cheat on them and it never turns out not being ugly. Then you have to choose sides when you don't wanna cause they want to force you too. I have never cheated on my husband but that doesn't mean when I see a hunky man that I don't say to myself now that is a fine specimen of a man..but it has never went farther then a thought.

saddly to say that i have. it was one of those things that at the time i felt bad about, but now i'm glad i did it. i had cheated on my boyfriend at the time with my ex who i was still in love with. the reaon that i had broken up with my ex-boyfriend was because he had cheated on me and then lied about the whole things. i dont know why i cheat on my b/f at the time with my ex. now a days i can stand the thought of cheating on any one or being cheated on.