I think I wanna get a cat

United States
April 26, 2009 12:12am CST
The only thing I worry about is whether we will pick the right kitten to be around our infant daughter. We would need to find a mellow-mannered kitten that we can train appropriately to be gentle and not scratch or bite...Do you think that would be too much work? Might it be better to get an older cat from a shelter who is already settled down?
4 responses
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
29 Apr 09
Get an older cat from the shelter. But first, take your baby somewhere that she can be around a cat for a couple of hours, take her hand and run it along the cat's fur. Watch for an allergic reaction or if she gets congested. It would be a shame to rescue a deserving kitty only to have to give it back because your child is allergic!
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• Canada
4 May 09
I agree with that...That is a wonderful idea I'm lucky I didn't have to say buy to my cat my daughter has been really good health wise around him sooo far that is!
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
4 May 09
I don't think it would really matter much if it was a new born kitty or a full grown cat I'm sure the shelter would know some background into if the cat is good around small children... Before bringing a cat in the home or just have the cat by itself let it smell some of babys blankets where the baby sleeps so they know! I was told put my cat into my daughters bassinet then scoop him out smack his butt and say no...That was before I had her but with doing that he hasn't bothered my babygirl and has been reallllllly good with her....I was told this from his vet!
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
26 Apr 09
I understand your concerns... I have found the most amiable cat and the seemingly more inteligent ones have been those with the extra toes.
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• United States
27 Apr 09
DO NOT BUY A KITTEN OR A CAT. Don't breed or buy while homeless die. I've got an 11 month old and she has gotten clawed by the cat once when she grabbed his tail too hard. I wouldn't get a kitten -- they are far too rambunxious. I'd go with an older cat and by all means whatever you do DO NOT DECLAW FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR KID. Your kid won't die from a cat scratch. Mine hasn't. So don't worry about the cat scratching. Cats scratch. Teach the kid to respect the animals. Don't harm the animals because your kid doesn't mind. Cats can be trained at any age not to scratch or bite. The most important thing is to NOT play with your hands with the cat. And for heaven's sake, do not listen to the first poster and get a cat who is newborn. You'd kill it taking it away from it's mother too soon.
• United States
30 Apr 09
And is this the point where I'm supposed to be scared and backpeddle? Sorry, love. People shoudln't listne to you. I did nothing wrong. You got proven wrong by not just me but by the other poster. You're spreading false information and could kill an animal if someone was dumb enough to listen to you. myLot obviously does not care that I called you out on the carpet as I have done nothing wrong. Again, you need to do some research before you start handing out advice. You're grossly misinformed when it comes to cat care. Get educated. Then I won't say what I said. People don't listen to this person. Obviously mentally disturbed!